Because often our visible differences affect our worklife, our personal lives, and well pretty much every aspect of how we exist in the world... do you consider them to be a disability?
I think the medical field may consider them cosmetic and therefore not a condition that significantly impedes an individual's ability to live a productive life, but I haven't done much research into it. I just know that there are a lot of disabilities that can't be seen, so I'm curious what others think about this.
Do you consider yours to be a disability, or have you been told by professionals/specialists that it's a verified disability?
I of course am not referring to differences that have caused obvious challenges such as mobility, hearing or vision problems.. I mean specifically visible differences only.
(The image illustrates how I believe many of us experience internalized ableism, similar to that of individuals with recognizable disabilities).
Thanks for your feedback!
I agree, the medical field definitely refer to them as more of a cosmetic thing these days. As I was growing up and needing the most surgery and treatment for my conditions, they saw them more as a medical problem but now I am older they refer to my conditions as more cosmetic challenges. They still impact my life in the same way as they used to though. Yes I may think of how my appearance makes me feel too but I mainly want my body to function as it should!! (Hope what I said makes sense😂)
Yes good points! I think not having the insight into how fully we are impacted by our differences, tends to leave many people believing it's cosmetic. I'm glad you were able to get treatment when you were younger, is it hard to go back for treatment now? Or have you become comfortable with the procedures? I want the results of further correction, but the idea of going through recovery again makes me feel like I should just try to make the best of my life as I am. I too am held back by my difference and I completely understand what you mean about wanting your body to function as it should. 🤗
I am still able to get my treatment for free unlike if it were for cosmetic purposes although the surgeons still focus more on the cosmetic side of things which isn't actually the most important part for me.
I would say that if you are considering further surgery, weigh up the pros and cons and see if one outweighs the other. However if you are really unsure or unhappy with the way you look at the minute then maybe you should just go for it! If you've done it before then I believe you're strong enough to do it again!😊
I'll follow up soon, lots to consider. 🤗
Sorry for my late reply I can't believe it's already been ten days! I'm glad you have ongoing support from doctors and health care providers, and a regular treatment plan. That's so important.
For me, I just wonder if more surgery would be worth it. Will I ever be able to attain the level of normalcy or correction that I seek. What if they tell me they can't do anything more for me or worse, what if I'm less satisfied with the results than I am now. Lots to consider..
Yes, they are all very good points. I have the same thoughts sometimes so I know how hard it can be to come to a decision. Just remember that you will still be you no matter what you decide to do. I wish you the best in making your decision😊
Thank you 🤗
hm, quite a few "what ifs" to consider 🤔🤔🤔