So if you have been following my posts you will know that we have moved now. Hubby says he now likes the house and has been busy doing DIY type things around the house and in his workshop. He seems to have more energy, as previously once he got up he would basically just sit and watch tv all day.
Unfortunately he is still drinking, judging by the trips to the shops that he does to pick up more cider, I would guess he is back drinking 6+ cans of cider a day.
He is not sleeping well and sits up until stupid o'clock watching tv and then comes to bed between 2am - 4am. He then tosses and turns and moans he is cold and cannot sleep. He talks in his sleep too. it s as if he is talking to someone else, but he also struggles to get some of his words out, almost like a stammer.
The neuropathy is the symptom that he moans the most about. He says his feet are numb and freezing cold all the time. He stumbles when he walks as well.
His eating is very up and down, some days he eats and some days he doesn't. He is still taking his Aymes complete drinks daily though. so over all he has gained a bit of weight, but again we are not sure if that is down to the Ascites instead?
He talks to his counsellor most weeks, but whenever the counsellor now calls hubby takes himself into another room, so I have no idea what he is telling the counsellor?
Hubby has had another blackout, this time in his workshop. I think it is more to do with lack of food than anything else, as he had had a few days of eating barely anything. Hubby struggled to get to his phone to call me for help. I have therefore just ordered him a new iphone and ordered him an iwatch, in the hope that that will help him.
The specialist looking at him for his blackouts has now sent hubby for a 24hr ECG and a echocardiogram, for which we are awaiting the results. Hubby has a tel appt with the specialist 4/5/2021 to discuss the results
Hubbys mood has also been better since we have moved apart from when he is half a sleep and chit chatting, as then he swears and curses like crazy. He is happy to be much closer to our girls and is looking forward to spending more time with them
His self care skills have also gone out of the window. He has not shaved for weeks and weeks. He is not washing and is wearing the same clothes over and over again. I actually moaned at him and told him he smelt, so he did change his clothes and begrudgingly had a shower.
His next appt with the liver specialist is July.
Not sure if hubby will ever get his drinking under control, so unfortunately his future is looking very bleak at the moment
As for me, as I know that you all look out for me as well, which means a lot to me. I love my new house and have almost finished unpacking, as hubby has left it all to me !! I have been treating myself to some new bits and pieces around the house to make it a bit more like ours. We would like to live in it for a while before we start decorating etc. So at the moment we are doing the boring but vital stuff, getting the gas meter moved having the electrics completely overhauled, had the unused gas appliances made safe, etc. My daughter has also returned to work last week, so I have started to look after our grandson too, which I absolutely love. I have been waking up between 6 and 7 most days, which is unheard of for me. I feel full of energy and am trying my best to ignore hubbys drinking/self destruction