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Long time taken to post this (sorry long post) but issues with not being able to on my laptop have prevented me from doing so before now but I'm still unable to comment on other posts. Well, what can I say, running the Monsal 10k with Bluebirdrunner and meeting everyone else was a dream which came true. Magical doesn't cover it! Bucket list ticked off!

I arrived in the UK to spend time with my cousin to sadly discover that her MIL had taken a turn for the worse and she sadly passed away the next morning, meaning I had to move to a hotel. She was nearly 101 and up until her last few weeks was still on her iPad Facebooking and Skyping. Her funeral was yesterday where she had banned black clothes and colourful clothes and glitter were to be worn instead, a wonderful old lady .

So there I was in a hotel, jet lagged and not safe behind the wheel of my rental car and Cantstopmenow got in touch and came out of her way to pick me up and take me out to Lytham for fish and chips and a walk along the sea front and on another day to take me out to Haigh Hall, where we ran a not parkrun for just over 6km, it was good to get my legs moving again after so much sitting down in planes and airports (over 27 hours flight time alone). Thank you so much for your kindness and your company.

On to Chester for a few days and then to Trentham Gardens where I stayed in a Premier Inn on site so I could run the Trentham Gardens parkrun, along with nearly a 1000 others! around the lake and through some of the woodland, what a beautiful setting.

Sandie1961 and Mr S had very kindly invited me to stay with them for a few days, where Sandie took me to Lincoln Castle, we dined on fish and chips in a lovely restaurant in Whitby, definitely earned after walking up and down those 199 steps! followed by a visit to Bempton Cliffs, (amazing to see all those birds clinging to the cliffs) and Robin Hood's Bay and then before an English afternoon tea at Doddington Hall, a not parkrun walk. I couldn't believe all that food was just for me! I polished most of it off and it was delicious I had such a lovely time Sandie and Mr S thank you both so much.

Down to Derbyshire where Bluebirdrunner and I met for the first time and a few happy tears shed, with your support on HU and Strava the last 4 years has been constant. I feel so privileged to have spent time with you and your family over the last few days, going around Chatsworth and riding the Monsal Trail the day after our run, where we saw Dexy5 and @UTS lovely to see you both again too. Run/walking the Monsal 10k with you was so much fun, the 2:2 ratio soon forgotten, with chats and laughs. I know you missed Floss, but I felt she was there with us and we 3 crossed the line together, it was just so touching to be clapped in by everyone.

It was so good to see you again too Linda and to meet GTFC Tasha99 cheekychipmunks TailChaser Katnap Shake-and-run for the very first time was brilliant. It's been amazing to see your activities on Strava and now to have met you all in real life, I'm still pinching myself. Sorry this is such a long post, but there were so many highlights I had to mention them all.

This trip to travel from New Zealand to run the Monsal 10k has exceeded every expectation I had. Thank you everyone, I doubt anything will ever measure up to this experience again ❀️ xx

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Sandraj39 profile image
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What a moving post lexi6 πŸ₯Ή and so many lovely memories made with friends new and old. Sorry to read about your cousins MIL - clearly quite a special lady.

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BluebirdrunnerGraduate10

Goosebumps!😘 xxx

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David_G

Well, what a trip that was for you lexi6 but what a sad way to start it, with a bereavement 😒 My grandma made it to 104 and it wasn’t until her last few months that she moved into a nursing home. She was a tough lady- perhaps that generation were more resilient, or didn’t have such bad diets as people have these days?

Sounds like you have some great memories of your journey across the world and meeting some of our HU friends πŸƒβ€β™‚οΈβ€βž‘οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈβ€βž‘οΈπŸ₯³

Hope you recover from the jet lag etc. quickly and you can back out again soon!

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toDavid_G

Thanks -David-G I'm sure you're right they were a tough breed that generation weren't they? she was fortunate to have been able to live in her own home, with help from family, until the very end. I have some lovely memories to take home and a new focus once I get back to maintain fitness and return and run it again 🀞

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It was wonderful to be able to spend so much time getting to know you better and to be able to introduce you to a handful of English icons. At least with us around behind the camera lens you’ve got some photos of yourself to remind you πŸ˜‚

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toSandie1961

It was Sandie and thanks for all those photos you took, my selfies are useless, so I didn't even try. The photos are a wonderful reminder of this most memorable holiday ❀️

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Its been quite full on lexi6 hasn't it!

The loss of your cousins MIL although expected was very sad. You were however, out on a limb a bit because of this when you first arrived.

Spending some fun time with Cantstopmenow then staying with Sandie and Mr S for some real treats helped you to relax a bit. Sleeping with that jetlag has been a real issue though hasn't it.

I can't believe you did Trentham gardens parkrun! The number of participants was huge!

I did shed a happy tear when we met, and hoped you would like the shoe tags 'she believed she could.....so she did!' that Oldfloss and I both also wear...

Our run was really fun, comfortable and relaxed. It might not have looked like it on that final run in, but I could have gone on all day!

The cycling on Monday was perfect too, super fun and a good for our legs (but not other parts πŸ˜‰)

Run done, I hope you can chill out and enjoy what the Lake District has to offer, before I see you again for Kew Gardens. (No, everyone, not a running event but a stroll in the sunshine!)

I am so happy that you came all that way to join the fun, and we got chance to spend that time together.

πŸ’šπŸ₯‚πŸΎxxx

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toBluebirdrunner

Struggling to get on HU again to reply BBr but at last I've managed to get on (not sure what's going on there} , the tags you gave me are perfect thank you and mantra already adopted, they'll be worn with pride. The cycle ride, so memorable too and my "bottie" has now forgiven me. What an amazing few days I've had, the jet lag worth every moment, can't wait to see you again at Kew. xxx

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Dexy5Graduate10β€’ in reply tolexi6

Those saddles were so hard lexi6 . Most uncomfortable bike I’ve ever ridden πŸ˜‚

It was a great pleasure handing it back.

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toDexy5

Padded lycra shorts maybe next time I reckon Dexy5 πŸ˜‚

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Dexy5Graduate10β€’ in reply tolexi6

Or bring my own saddle. 🀣🀣

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toDexy5

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Oh lexi6 this post got me (sniff sniff) to make the gargantuan effort you did to come over and run with HU friends is really touching πŸ’™ To take what happened within your family and get through the funeral yesterday is testament to the person you are.

As you know, this very forum changed my life so I'll always be grateful for it and the people on it.

You've certainly gained experiences and made memories on this trip and I'm so happy for you. It really was absolutely wonderful meeting you πŸ™Œβœ¨οΈ

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toGTFC

Sadly GTFC I couldn't make the funeral, as I had to get up here to the Lake District and I missed the live feed of the funeral as well πŸ₯² she had a long, happy life and for her and her family a release, she was one very strong lady. Meeting you and Tasha99 was such a thrill and I'm taking home such wonderful memories of my Monsal trip and even getting to run with GTFC 😊

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SueAppleRunGraduate1060minGraduate

What a visit you've had, ups and downs, happiness and sadness, and what a HU meet up and event.... .

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toSueAppleRun

It's been a wonderful trip SueAppleRun even with the sadness, she had a long happy life enjoyed to the full and was an absolute character. What a meet up I'm taking home some amazing memories, would love to be able to do it again one day πŸ₯°

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Mudita11Graduate10

Beautiful report lexi6 and what an amazing time at the Monsal Trail. You can’t beat a HU meet up πŸ˜ƒ

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toMudita11

Thank you Mudita11 I love seeing HU meetups and all the photos on the forum and Strava and being part of this one was just incredible πŸ₯°

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What a fabulous Monsal day Lexi! Obviously sad how your holiday started but loads of special memories to take back to NZ with you 😍

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toIrishprincess

It was IP, so lovely to be part of a HU meet up and treasured memories πŸ₯°

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I’m sorry, I didn’t realise your plans with your cousin had been changed lexi6 . But I’m so pleased that Cantstopmenow , Sandie1961 and Bluebirdrunner were able to fill that void and give you the happy holiday you needed and deserved.

It’s probably 6 years since we last met up and I swear you look younger now. If you were to run one race in the UK, this was definitely the one to do! There was no pressure to run it fast, just laughing, chatting and enjoying the lovely views- just perfect.

You are now in another of our favourite locations. Do enjoy the Lake District and the rest of your trip. πŸ₯°

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toDexy5

Yes it wasn't unexpected, but still a shock for the family. If you remember when I was here last time my uncle died unexpectedly πŸ₯². The Lake District is beautiful, I've had a lovely time, heading back tomorrow. Cantstopmenow Sandie1961 Bluebirdrunner made my holiday extra special and I will have lovely, lovely memories of the 10k and the HU meetup forever πŸ₯°

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nowsterGraduate10

If you're still in the NW of England this Saturday, would you be interested in doing a parkrun?

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply tonowster

I would have loved to have done nowster but I'm getting close to returning the car and then heading south by coach as I'm nearly at the end of my trip πŸ₯²

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply tonowster

Just as well we didn't plan a parkrun Nowster I broke my rental car and it's out of action now as I wait for a replacement 🀞

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linda9389Graduate10

What a fabulous post lexi. You will have some wonderful memories to take home with you and hopefully you will be back again sometime soon. It was so lovely to see you again, to see you complete the 10k in style and to clearly see you having such a wonderful time πŸ₯°

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply tolinda9389

Thanks Linda I've had a wonderful time and have so many memories to take back. I'd forgotten how much I loved cycling too. I'd love to come back and I'd bike the Monsal trail again but bring my own gel seat cover next time! πŸ˜… It was lovely to see you again too Linda

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Hi Lexi It's been lovely to see you and spend time in your company. I'm so sorry it was under such sad and difficult circumstances at the start of your holiday.

You've made up for it and had some great adventures, topped by Monsal last week. I loved the grin and raised arms as you and BBR ran across the finish line - well done! Glad the Lakes has been good too. See you soon xx

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toCantstopmenow

Thanks Cantstopmenow it has been lovely to spend time with you too and I'm so happy we are getting to spend a little more of it together before I head back πŸ₯°

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CantstopmenowGraduate10β€’ in reply tolexi6

Me too πŸ˜ƒπŸ₯°

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Beachcomber66Graduate10

How did I miss this lovely post and string of responses! Too busy nursing a slightly damaged knee and grievously injured pride after a little fall! Your meet up was clearly magical; old friends, new friends, the North East coast, good food, oh and a little run thrown in for good measure. Everyone who met you clearly felt that it was a privilege and the enjoyment you shared just shines through. So sad that you lost your cousin whilst you were here, but good that you could join what sounds to have been a fitting celebration of the person she was. A very special visit for everyone who met you.

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toBeachcomber66

Thanks so much Beachcomber66 I hope your knee is on the mend. It really has been a wonderful trip as you say meeting old and new friends, being part of the HU meet up very special. I'd really love to do it again, the heart's willing and I just need to keep these old legs of mine going too. πŸ₯°

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OldflossAdministratorGraduate10

I thought I had replied to this... ! What a wonderful post and what a wonderful lady your cousins MIL was! A life to be truly celebrated..

A joy if a day and a joy of a race...you and my lovely friend Bluebirdrunner had a marvelous run and a great time too!

What a super time you had , seeing so much and experiencing so much that my stamping ground has to offer.

I am so sorry I could not share with you all.. and missed the run so, so much... but... there will be other times and other runs...

I am so glad that your visit to the Monsal and your time with BBR was so pleasing... well done you! x

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toOldfloss

Thank you so much OF it was a wonderful day and running with Bluebirdrunner very special my new tags my new mantra. The run really was a joy and the feeling being clapped in, never to be forgotten. A beautiful day in beautiful surroundings and oh golly the view from the viaduct just breathtaking. I would love to do it again, but I'll bring a gel seat cover for the ride next day the next time πŸ˜…

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Bluebirdrunner and GTFC if you PM me with your mobile numbers I can send you some of the group pictures on WhatsApp , if you want .

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KatnapGraduate10

What a heart warming post lexi6

It was an honour to meet you. Your wonderful character is clear to see both on the day and in your run report.

We hope to see you again!

🐱 Katnap 🐱

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lexi6Graduate10β€’ in reply toKatnap

Thanks so much Katnap and ditto too, especially as I never thought I would ever get to be part of an HU meet up, I have loved seeing the photos on Strava, never thought I'd ever be in them one day. There can't be much to beat that feeling. Oh yes! maybe just one Go County! 🌝

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