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So who will make the post run cuppa now ? 🤔

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61LadyGraduate10
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Started C25k last May.

Conversation with OH went something like this

Me: Do you want to do it with me ?

Him: Absolutley not

Me: Why not come with me ?

Him: Because I can’t run - never have been able to - not interested but you go and enjoy yourself.

After 40 years of marriage I knew that was it - he was not to be persuaded 🙄

Over the last 3 months, I’ve hopped on and off the IC, never really felt comfortable on runs and I’ve gradually got a bit low and a bit fed up generally.

Over the weekend I made a decision to start over - that’s C25k not marriage 🤣

I told OH I would start again this Wednesday (tomorrow) and in his always supportive way wished me luck and said he would have tea ready for when I get back.

I started getting all my gear ready at lunchtime today and conversation went like this

Him: When are we starting this then ?

Me: Tomorrow morning before work

Him: So will you get my gear ready too ?

Me : 🤨

Him: I’m serious - I’ve changed my mind ... as long as you listen to all the instructions - I don’t want to listen to anything except you !

So maybe I don’t know him that well after all 😉

Wish us luck as we embark on C25k together 🏃‍♀️🏃🏻‍♂️🤞

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Newbie59 profile image
Newbie59

Well done, it's like the slow dripping of water, you've had an effect! :)

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toNewbie59

I know - little by little

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Deals1Graduate10

Ohh enjoy your running journey together

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toDeals1

Thank you - little apprehensive at the moment

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Deals1Graduate10 in reply to61Lady

Keep us posted

Cmoi profile image
CmoiGraduate10

Oh I love this post 61Lady for so many reasons! Happy running 👍😀

61Lady profile image
61LadyGraduate10 in reply toCmoi

Thank you - I’m strangely quite excited about starting again

Week7 profile image
Week7Graduate10

Enjoy your running together-that sounds like great fun.

Oh, and if you're issuing the instructions obviously he makes the cuppa!

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toWeek7

Good idea - I like your thinking

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Beachcomber66Graduate10

Or you can find a run with a nice cafe for flat white and brownie at the end! Bliss 🙂

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toBeachcomber66

Perhaps a reward to celebrate end of W5 - good plan

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SassyF60minGraduate

Brilliant! Happy running to you both ☺️

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toSassyF

Thank you - looking forward to it

CBDB profile image
CBDBGraduate10

Wowsa! Love your post! And wishing you happy couple experiences of running!!! Running has certainly given me and hubby a shared hobby, which we both are enjoying (but I think, me more than him) 👏👏👏👏💪🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏻

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toCBDB

We never played nicely together with golf a few years ago. 😁I hope this will be a more enjoyable shared hobby. He’s quite a strong, fast walker so I’m guessing his walking speed will be my running speed. I’m going to need to exercise my vocal chords too to shout the instructions as he disappears into the distance 🤣

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CBDBGraduate10 in reply to61Lady

🤣🤣

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SueAppleRunGraduate1060minGraduate

Ha ha ha, sounds like Willow, there was no way he was going to run until michael said “run” that was it he was off 😂

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toSueAppleRun

Always read your posts with a little envy that you run together. I wonder if me and my running buddy will be as successful ?

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SueAppleRunGraduate1060minGraduate in reply to61Lady

Bet you never read my first, he is such a gentle laid back guy but he got really grumpy and when i said i’d go on my own he wasn’t having it, he said he’d drive me but wasn’t running, but he quickly became as enthusiastic as me and we love going together, I’ll be pleased when he’s over his cold

🤣Oh good luck! I am so looking forward to reading your post tomorrow after your first run with your OH. It promises to be very entertaining 😉

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply to

Thank you - don’t want to bore people with a run by run account but will certainly let my buddies here know how W1R1 goes. Signs are good so far as we’ve agreed on a time to go ... 6.45am. Think I’ll need long sleeves in the morning - brrrr

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OldgirlrunsGraduate10

I think this is brilliant 61Lady! Sorry to hear that you’ve been a bit low recently but a fresh start sounds just what you need. You can issue the orders to your OH as you go, then he gets to make the post run beverage when you’re finished! A win win for you I think!! Enjoy C25K v.2!

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toOldgirlruns

Thank you - already feeling a bit more upbeat and we haven’t even started yet 👍6.45am start so should be supping my tea at around 7.30 - I’ll need it after all the shouting I’ll be doing 😀

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linda9389Graduate10

Love this!

Lifluf profile image
LiflufGraduate10

Gosh how exciting. My OH just says his knees won't let him run and that's that!Do let us know how you get on.😊

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61LadyGraduate10 in reply toLifluf

I’ll post an update after work today

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Raisemeup60minGraduate

That's quite an accomplishment 61Lady, firstly you've obviously impressed your OT and, secondly, you've got him listening to you and doing exactly what you've suggested - sounds like happy days are ahead in more ways than one.Best wishes ☺️

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