I have just completed the Prospect Run the Rainbow 5k at Lydiard Park. 🌈😁😁😁😁!
Today was the ultimate run for me. The reason I started running was about the realisation that I’ll be 50 next year and how lucky I am to have lived so long. I thought with a heavy heart about how I miss my brother Tony ,who passed away 5+ years ago at just 46 years old. He was such a laugh! Such a pest and such a big part of our lives that so much joy was lost without him to tease his 5 sister’s and quite frankly be a royal pain in the arse. He absolutely loved that role. 🤨 Waaay too much! 🤣!
Today was all about living though and reminiscing and being grateful for those memories of laughter and joy!😍 He would be proud that I started running because of him and he would certainly tell me he did me a huge favour, “as usual” (cheeky beggar! 🤣)
Today, I felt his presence every step of the way. I have completed the run of my life and no matter how much further, faster or better I run in the future this will always be the best run I’ve ever done!! 😭 I don’t have any idea what my time was, as they didn’t do timing and I was so busy in tears at the end for what this meant to me, I hadn’t even realised the run had ended. And then I forgot to stop my app. But you know what? It really doesn’t matter! I ran!! I ran and I ran!! 😭😭😭😍And I have bling too! 🌈🥇😭! These are the happiest tears I’ve shed in years! I did it! Was it a PB?? Oh yes!! 😍✊🏽
Thank you all for the encouragement, the sharing and the motivation to help me on this life changing journey!! I am so grateful! 🙏🏽❤️
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Yay! That's brilliant! He would be so proud of you! Am very emotional reading your post. Life is amazing but it can be so very cruel too. Well done! Hope to see you at the park run soon! 😁😁
Beautiful post and yes clearly he would be incredibly proud of you. Painful but you’ve put your energy into this positive change...... huge respect and what a fabulous pic too 🤗
Thanks so much ju-ju! It’s such a great feeling!! I’m a runner!! 😱 My son was way ahead of me. I think around 8th back, but I was doing my race and that was exactly how I planned it. He was there to welcome me home!! 😁❤️
He’s very good. He came to wait for me on my graduation run too! He knew I would be emotional and always ready with a huge hug!! Children are amazing!! 😍❤️
Oh bless that’s so lovely..... boys are so lush aren’t they? I think it really helps the relationship when you run with them too. It’s deffo made us closer as we’ve been running together for 5 years now.
They are!! I’m sure girls are too! I only have boys though. My older son was at a martial arts event today, otherwise it would have been a complete family affair! 🤣 Maybe next year! 😍❤️
Oh Fabulous450 what a heart warming, sad, happy, triumphant, proud & special run this is, I had tears in my eyes reading it, your lovely lovely royal pain in the bum will be looking down on you with pride, love & tears too...what a wonderful thing you have done today?! Even though your Brother isn’t here in body you will carry him in your soul forever, what a lucky brother he is having such a thoughtful, caring Sister like you xxx massive Mummycav hug coming your way xxx
Aah thank you so much Mummycav!! I do hope he’s reading these posts too!! 🤨 He is very lucky to have me!! 🤣🤣🤣! He did say how much he loved me before he left and I’ll always hold that memory dear. 😍❤️
Well done! What a lovely post and tribute to your much loved brother. Lydiard park is a fab place, I'm not far - near Cirencester, must check out when it has races.
Many of us know how you feel & started running for our sanity/health too. My mum's early death from Alzheimer's in Jan 17 propelled me into being fitter before I reach 50. I often have tearful moments at the end of landmark runs too!
Oh thank you so much Slinkymalinki! Big hugs!! I was emotional a few times during the run too! Just the absolute amazement that I was achieving my vision. 😲 I’m sure our loved ones would be proud that losing them has brought something positive into our lives! They have meant something and when your life has meant something after we are gone, that’s a life well lived!! 😍❤️
A lovely positive way to remember your brother, beautiful pain in the bum brother. I was welling up reading your emotional post. You did well, you held it together enough to get to the end.
I defy anyone to read your post and not shed a tear Fabulous. Well done on your run, I’m sure your brother would be proud of your transformation to a runner. 🏃♀️👏👏👏👏
What a fabulous post Fabulous450 ! Those are the best runs that bring joy and happiness to a sad situation. I'm sure your brother is looking down on you with huge pride and a smug smile knowing he did this 😉. What a great picture.
He sounds like he was a lot of fun, if not sometimes trying 😆, to be around. It's events like these and reminders of why we started running that helps to bring the memories back to the forefront of our minds, putting huge smiles back on our faces.
Thanks so much Beanjo!! Yes it is definitely a better way to pay tribute to him! He was way too jovial to sit in slumber! May as well get out there and do something that feels great. 😍❤️
What a wonderful post Fabulous450 - so moving, you made me well up! I remember running the Bristol 10k a couple of years ago, in memory of my dear Mum, so I know how emotional it can feel. You are right, your brother would be so impressed - what a positive thing to have achieved! Fantastic photo too!😀
Thanks so much Sandra!! I knew from graduation that I would be ready and that was an emotional day too. Today was the vision come true and the emotions of absolute joy was so what he would have wanted. It’s been a while, but I do miss him like it was yesterday. Perhaps if he had been a little less charismatic (another word for pestering!) the quietness without him wouldn’t be quite so quiet! But I can still laugh about the memories!! 🤣❤️
Oh Fabz 🤗 Like many others I cried reading this, with empathy and sadness for the heartbreaking loss of your brother, and also with pride for you ❤️ For the journey you've been on, the endless continuous support you give to others and of course for the Mantra you gave to me that has had a life changing effect on me "Out there, don't care!" You're amazing. Incredible. And of course Fabulous!! 😊🦋😊 I L❤️VE that photo!! And I'm loving the green skort ❤️
Aaah big hugs Flar!! We have certainly been on a journey haven’t we?? 😍😍! I thought of you when I found my skort! 😂! We shall find the courage to continue the journey and be “Out there, don’t care”! Because no matter the challenges in life, running makes you feel so amazingly free! ❤️
You are a very special lady Fabulous450 your brother was lucky to have you as a sister, your sons are lucky to have you as a mother and we are all lucky to have you as our VRB, as Mr Spock would say "live long and prosper" xx
Just seen your post Fabulous- what a lovely post and i was emotional reading it - felt such love ♥️ well done on your achievement and your bro would be super proud of you I bet!
Keep running 🏃♀️and smiling 😁 love the pic too XX
I still have my first parkrun to do- hoping to do it in the next few weeks - busy diary at the weekends has prevented me doing it but do it I shall!!!🎽👍
Aww well done Fabulous! What a wonderful achievement and emotional post, I’m sure you’re brother would be super proud of his amazing sister! What a memorable run that will stay with you forever. So proud of you too 😘👏❤️
Oh thank you Vix! I felt as though I could have run on for days!! Had to be shouted to, to let me know it was the end! They could have done with a big finish banner!! I was in the zone! 🤣❤️
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