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Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

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As you experience grief, it is normal to have some changes in mood, but if you find that you are acting in ways that feel entirely unfamiliar, this may be cause for concern. Some things to look for: irrational anger, excessive drinking, drug use or destructive relationships.

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after my son died I was drinking more and taking drugs same with my mum but with my dad I wasn`t my behaviour got a bit wrong after my mum passed and I was nearly sectioned.

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gracy225 in reply to kenster1

I am so sorry for your loss. xgracy

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gracy225

When my nephew passed away I drank, heavily nightly. I would pour over photos of him, sob, drink, sob. I didn't realize at the time how bad I had gotten. It took a person outside my immediate family (my son's girlfriend) to help me see myself as I truly was.

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Caza

yes, I guess I drink way too much. I also keep people at arms length. Friends I mean not my family.

I have changed no doubt about it.

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Starrlight

substance use and in bed a lot, no appetite and fear.

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chloe40Administrator

I'm sorry Starrlight {{{hugs}}}

I really hope you have some support around you, please do message whenever you wish.

Are you in the UK or US?

Chloe x

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