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Once you get back to some kind of normality?

For me, I will be visiting the Crematorium, I haven't been allowed out(shielding)but this week, only for a short walk but that's progress.

Chloe <3

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see my friends go for a beer and play pool not really missing much else myself.

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chloe40Administrator in reply tokenster1

Well that's good that you're not missing too much more Kenny, glad your safe <3

Chloe<3

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kenster1Volunteer in reply tochloe40

i went down the graveyard on a couple of days ago done a good bit of weeding and sat i needed the peace.

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I imagine that was bliss and I completely empathise, oh how I'd love the peace<3

Chloe<3

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Sandradsn

Placing my mums ashes and having memorial stone laid at cemetery. Everything has been on hold.

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This must be a difficult time for you Sandra, you need to do these things to say goodbye properly <3

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Greyone

It has been said that life will never be the same again since this pandemic started. I wonder what we can look forward to and what normal will look like. Given last night's news , I think we'll find out next week.

Following a course i did some time ago called communicate to integrate, I was trying to do just that. I thought i was ok not having much of a social life, then I realised I may be wrong. I felt anxious about not becoming more sociable.

I will feel happier with a little more freedom in the outside world.

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Hi Greyone

I think a lot of us will be a little anxious about getting out and doing 'normal things' but we are going to have to do that slowly and learn to communicate with others again, which may not be easy after being so insular.

Try not to worry though, with practise, we'll get there<3

Chloe

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Greyone

Ya know, thanks to COVID more people are talking more, being more thoughtful. I tend to spend more time shopping because somethings can still be harder to find and I've been using local shops more. So in truth I've been meeting and talking more than I used to!

I think we'll all look back and say that this was a good thing for us that survive. It is making us more considerate and less contemptable. What my mum used to call a Salutary Lesson!

I think those that have suffered and survived will think more about their experience.

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chloe40Administrator in reply toGreyone

I absolutely agree Greyone

It certainly has brought about many changes, and some for the good as you describe.

I must say, I can even detect a more confident attitude in your 'voice' Greyone, so I'm really pleased about that<3

Chloe<3

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