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So far, is this month better than last?

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For me, I'm still full of hope one minute and then it's gone like a puff of smoke!

Chloe <3

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Caza

It’s been a strange year so far. Life hasn’t been any better but I seem to be handling things differently. Seem very laid back & accepting that things are the way they are. I’m not at all sure it’s a good thing-I seem very cold-numb & soooow tired. The good thing, I hope, is I’ve agreed to go back on the two committees that I left during lockdown 🤦‍♀️

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Hi Caza I'd say your outlook seems very positive :-)

I'm so pleased to read this Caza, feeling ready to go back to your Committee work is excellent, sending love <3

Stupidly, I have just resigned from a committee and I really wishes I hadn't now!

Chloe

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Caza in reply tochloe40

You can always change your mind Chloe

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Dolphin14 in reply toCaza

So true. We can change our mind or find doneyhkng else. It great to have choices.

🐬

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Dolphin14

I feel more settled. I have triggers surrounding the deaths I've experienced. Some years are worse than others. My hardest times are the holidays which happen to be anniversary dates. This past year was so bad.

Keep busy is one thing we can do. Sometimes we need a good cry and solitude.

One day at a time. If you get a good day, enjoy the peace it brings.

❤️🐬

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Yes indeed Dolphin14 <3

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Caza

“ if we get a good day, enjoy the peace it brings” so agree

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Charmerbluegirl

Sadly No ! This month hasn't been my best nor has the last month either if you'd say December I'd say yess. Sadly I can't turn back time.

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That's sad Charmerbluegirl

Always here to support you <3

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taking each day as it comes last month wasn`t great mentally.heard on Friday another childhood friend passed away not seen him in 32 years but he was a big part of me growing up.at least his funeral is going to be up here so I can pay my respects to him and the family.

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chloe40Administrator in reply tokenster1

Hi kenster1 That's tough Kenny,

So many funerals, it's enough to drag anyone down; do look after your own health especially if you've been feeling low <3

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