My partner's twin sister died 10 months ago at 49 from cancer and only 3 days from diagnosis to passing. My partner still does not accept the reality of her passing and frequently asks to be taken to see her , tries to phone her still. Her CPN told her she is deliberately blocking this and to snap out of it almost which did not help . My partners still asks if it's true ,she would remember that etc. There is no grave as she was cremated and her ashes taken abroad by her daughter to scatter either . I try my best but don't know what to do next . Cruse said they cannot help her until she accept it .