Does anyone on here have vivid dreams/nightmares that you interact with? I’m plagued with them. Last night I dreamt that my sister was moving NZ without telling me, she wasn’t even going to say goodbye. I was sobbing & feeling utterly lost. Then I told myself (still asleep) that she couldn’t of gone to NZ as she’s dead. More sobbing. I feel absolutely drained today ☹️Does anyone else suffer nightmares?
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Vivid dreams/nightmares



Hi Caza
Yes, I do too! and it's so scary and upsetting, it drains you the following day too.
All I can think is it's because we haven't as yet processed the loss (whatever that means <3) sounds like a tin of peas if it wasn't so serious for those who suffer it.
{{{hugs}}}
Chloe <3
Thanks for replying Chloe. It’s bitter sweet because I get to spend time with my loved & lost but I always know that they shouldn’t be there. Not sure anyone who doesn’t get these dreams/nightmares would get how draining & upsetting they are. I’ve been listening to Ed Sheerins new song. Visiting Hours the words are absolutely beautiful. Take a listen.
I just listened to the song Caza,it is beautiful. It's true if only heaven had visiting hours!😥
Beautiful meaningful words, if only eh
Caza, so sorry you have these dreams.
Dreams are so strange that people can't find an explanation for them.
My dream about my mum was one, she was living in a flat but the stairs leading down were too small.
The other is I am in the house we both lived in (the building has been redeveloped) and mum says they won't get me out of here.
Anyway, getting back to you I understand how distressing it is and how it can effect your day if you let it.
Keep posting and if I think of anything else I will contact you.
Love and hugs ❤
Thanks for replying. They’re awful aren’t they. My husband doesn’t really get it. He’s says but they are only dreams/nightmares, they’re not real but they are very real. I try not to let them affect my day but sometimes I can’t stop it.
I’m sorry you experience them as well. Take care x