Headstone

[Robbo1]

Can anyone give me an idea of how long it takes to get a headstone erected after payment for it? I paid for my husband’s headstone three months ago. I have asked about it, but I keep getting various reasons as to why it is not erected yet.

[chloe40 Administrator]

Hi Robbo1

I'm sorry to read this, it's the last thing you need!

I don't have experience of this but I'm sure other members will let you know their experiences.

Take care

Chloe

[MEW53]

Hi Robbo1,I don’t know about headstones but do know that these sort of things can take a while. I had a bench done with a bronze plaque for my husband and that took a few months.

It may be worth ringing another funeral director or burial ground to get an idea of the timelines. I know headstones can take a while cos they have to source the stone and then get a stonemason to engrave it.

Sorry you’re having problems, it’s the last thing you need when you are grieving. Hope you can get is sorted quickly.

[chloe40 Administrator]

Hello Robbo1

I was just wondering if you had any news about the headstone for your husband? I really hope so, all this waiting around is not good.

Chloe

[Robbo1 in reply to chloe40]

Not yet, Chloe, I’m still waiting. Thanks for asking. X

[chloe40 Administrator]

That's such a shame, thinking of you!

Chloe

[Midori]

There are a lot of variables in this kind of work, you are paying for a craftsman to make it. First there is the choice of stone, some are harder to work than others. Then there is the amount of text and detail on the stone, a long inscription would take longer than a simple one. Also, to ensure the stone is stable when erected, time must be given for the grave itself to settle.