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Do we have any Anniversaries/Birthdays this coming week?

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Special thoughts for my Dad, on the Anniversary of his death 24/9

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Nathalie99

Hi Chloe,

I am very sorry about your Dad...

Exactly one year ago I lost someone very close to me in traumatic circumstances and it is still very tough. I felt I should have done more to somehow prevent it, even though he was very ill and I was out of the country. It was premature death and he could have made it if only he took better care of himself.

I'm trying to process things and hoping to find some acceptance eventually. Talking things through has been helpful.

I have had major happy events this year and I am blessed with the best support from my husband who is my rock.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Nathalie99

Hi Nathalie,

So sorry you've been through such a sad time. Trauma such as this is so difficult to cope with and it's still early days but you will get there, just don't rush things. So glad you have such great support.

Take care

Chloe

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Nathalie99 in reply to chloe40

Thank you very much, Chloe.

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Greyone

Amongst all the sadness in thinking of our departed ones, I hope you can take comfort from any fond memories you keep close at heart. Extra special {{{hugs}}}} for all the ones you give to support others here. You'll be very much in my thoughts - G1

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Greyone

Thank you so much Greyone

xx

Chloe

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Lperica10

Thinking of you. Do you do something on that day?

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chloe40Administrator

Thank you Lperica10

Yes, I always visit the cemetery and then cook his favourite dinner. I always seem to be thinking of him for several days around this time.

Chloe x

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kenster1Volunteer

hi chloe thoughts are with you today and all your family god bless.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to kenster1

hank you Kenny kenster1

It's good of you to take the time, I hope all is okay with you.

Chloe

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