Your loved one passed away
Good
Been left food
Visitors
Prayers funnily enough
Bad
Constant asking about the funeral
Pushy people
His family generally not good
Crowded with visitors at times then nothing, same with phone calls and texts
Hope this is not too much of a trigger. TC
For me, with both parents and my first two husbands dying years ago, the good after being widowed for the third time was knowing that at 86, I need never again take complete responsibility for another human being. The bad is that my third husband and I were married only for three years when he died.
Still grieving after 10 years
