Good Morning everyone

[chloe40]

Just checking in to how your doing this week.

Is there anything you'd like to get off your mind? then please do, I'm here <3

Chloe

[Weatherwoman]

Yes, I So need to get something off my mind & then this post comes along. I lost my Sig. Other last Nov. (2022). Then, to make a very long story short, I had to sell the house, and am waiting for a low income apt. with my Brother five hundred miles from where I was living & where all my friends are. It's All So stressful to say the least. Living without my Sig. Other who was my Anchor, my best friend, my love is devastating. But, what I want to get off my mind & "chest" right now is that my family did not like my Sig. Other though they knew I was Very happy with him. Tonight, my Nephew, who also lives in this area came over to see me. He (Nephew is now in his late forties). He (Nephew) did not say One word, not One word about my loss (he knew I had lost Mike, my Sig. Other), and all they my Nephew & family talked about was Their kids, their life, etc. I felt SO sad, like I was invisible! And, my Brother & Sister-in-law do not mention my loss, though if I bring up how I feel (which isn't much) I get Very little response. My Sig. Other was a good man, and he did have faults, who doesn't, and my family just didn't care for him as they are very critical & judgemental. Well, this is getting too long --I just want to bring out how utterly Alone I feel with the loss of my Sig. Other --we were together for 27 years, and I have to keep my heartache to myself mostly. I am SO hurt & just want to get this off my mind & chest --thabk you.

[Weatherwoman in reply to Weatherwoman]

I meant to write that I am waiting for a low income apt. & am now staying with my Brother & Sister-in-law five hundred miles away --

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Weatherwoman]

That’s terribly sad, keep in touch with your friends here.

Chloe

[Weatherwoman in reply to chloe40]

Thank you. HU site is Very important to me --appreciate

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Weatherwoman]

Thank you so much, just what I needed to hear today😘

[Weatherwoman in reply to chloe40]

It's true --I go on HU every night & don't feel So alone in how I feel, and that I can express those feelings here. Helps me & I hope I helps others, as well.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Weatherwoman]

Hi Weatherwoman

I felt so sad reading your post, to have to sell your joint home was bad enough(hugs).

To totally ignore your life and love one is too much, that’s so insensitive and downright rude.

You are strong enough to get through this and you will, we’re here for you.

Please lean on us for support.

Chloe x

[Weatherwoman in reply to chloe40]

Just read your reply & Thank you So very much for your kind & caring words. Though you are a stranger to me, I feel closer to you, now, than those that I have known all my life! Am thinking of a line from some play, or book --"Depending on the kindness of strangers!" Thanks for you understanding.

[Bingofox007 in reply to Weatherwoman]

Sending you love and understanding. Keep in touch on here, it helps, may not have the answers but have friends who are listening. This site has helped me so much. Take care 🦊xx

[Weatherwoman in reply to Bingofox007]

Oh, thank you So much --it's good to know that people on this site are very caring & understanding.

[chloe40 Administrator]

Always here for you Weatherwoman

x

[Weatherwoman in reply to chloe40]

Thank you