How are you all feeling after your loss

[Natsteveo]

Would anyone like to share with us how this has been for you losing your loved one? What feelings do you have that's different ?

[Yvonneandgeorge]

It is not just your partner passing away, I feel like I have lost so much and he is here xxx

[Natsteveo in reply to Yvonneandgeorge]

Your so right Yvonneandgeorge I've just read what you go through know that everyone here is always available to talk to.your not alone everyone has there own experience to tell you have lost so much here if you need to talk anytime 😊

[jaykay777]

After having lost three husbands to death, I feel that I don't want to enter a close relationship again.

[Natsteveo in reply to jaykay777]

I can imagine how you would feel like that having lost your husbands.it is bound to make you feel like that maybe in the back of your mind you feel you don't want to get close again to someone because of what you have been through incase it happens again.but it may not happen again and you could spend the rest of your life being happy sharing it with someone. But only you will know when the time is right and only you know when you are ready.thanks for sharing your feelings.😊

[Auddonz]

I really don't want to talk to anyone who has not experienced the loss of their husband. We were married 57 years and went to H.S. together. Unless you have lost, they don't really understand and tend to give you stupid advice. I am completely alone without him

[Natsteveo]

This is true Auddonz I couldn't possibly understand how it feels to lose my soul mate I would be utterly beside myself as you are.but here we have all lost a loved one and can relate to that feeling of loss but in different ways for each loved one. everyone grieves differently but the loss still impacts us all greatly.but your are truly right the only people who can relate and feel what you do is someone who has been through the same as you.im thinking of you take care.

Love nat xx