Don’t know what to do

[L1974]

Hi everybody you will probably think I am being silly saying this but at the weekend we bought a puppy, quite unplanned though we have talked about it for a while thinking it would be in the future. He is lovely but I think I went into it pressured by my husband and son and just not sure I have th energy for it. I feel so emotional and want to cry all the time, all I can thing is what the hell have I done, got a demanding 7 year old and job (though am currently working at home). I am 46 so should know better really, feel trapped now....Not happy like hubby and son.

[CopingwithEx]

In a similar situation. Already have a dog but my family decided to get another puppy. As I’m at home atm due to illness im expected to help with the puppy while everyone works (of course) but I’m really struggling with my anxiety just now on top of suffering fibromyalgia and ME.the past 5 days been convinced I’m having a build up to heart attack at 21!!! Pressure in chest, indigestion symptoms, throat tightness. I can barely look after myself let alone the stress of the new pup and feeling so guilty and family just think I’m lazy

[L1974 in reply to CopingwithEx]

I just feel so sad I’m a grown woman and too worried about upsetting my family and spoiling their dream!? Hoping I will settle but who knows? Good luck with yours, why do we put ourselves through this!

[Chest1]

Having a seven year old, a job and puppy is a lot. Dogs, initially are like having a baby to look after. However if you’re feeling tearful I think you might need to chat with your doctor. Might you be a bit depressed. Sometimes depression makes one feel unable to cope and tearful.

[Moon_Glitter]

Puppy's take a lot of looking after and training. Your pup is a baby and pretty much helpless at this time. Maybe you should seriously think about returning the pup or finding him/her a home where they can be looked after properly. This doesn't mean you failed as a puppy parent it just means your not ready at this point for the responsibility. You see it and recognize it. Which is a very good start. I have 3 dogs 2 are over 100 lbs one is a tiny morkie. I raised all 3 from baby's they are all grown now and still require a lot of work. Grooming appts. Walks. Vet visits. Play time. It really doesn't stop. Do what is best for you and your pup.