My bf over 4 years has cheated and webcammed.

[Jenna_]

Is it bad that my partner of over 4 years has cheated on me twice. Webcammed 5 times and been on dating apps more then twice.

I mean I’ve got that much anxiety I just found out he webcammed on a site which I hacked into his email because of my own benefit of knowing as he constantly dislikes me looking at his things.

I feel tortured and he doesn’t feel ashamed of it what so ever and constantly says that his nearly 40 that he can do whatever he likes and if I don’t like it I should fuck off.....

I feel so low yet so unappreciated and so upset....

I feel betrayed and it makes me feel so bad about my personal image. I don’t know what to do...😔 I’m utterly confused and I feel like he doesn’t respect me.

I’ve never cheated on him in the 4 years I’ve been with him....

Please help

[Wizardsmom]

Jenna_, your boyfriend does not respect you in any way, shape, or form. You deserve better and no one deserves to deal with THAT or 'fuck off'.

I know it's easier said than done, but you need to drop him and move on. Take care of yourself and good luck!

[kenster1]

hi sorry he has cheated on you don't matter if its webcam or not once a cheat always a cheat big bags at the ready as he shows no remorse 40 more like 14 you deserve better every time he hurts you it drags you down more.

[Jaxs050783]

He ain’t worthy of you! He has little or no respect for you.

Get rid of him and start afresh. Your anxiety will improve once he is out of your life.

Really sorry to hear that you have gone through this.

Tony