Playing christmas songs and watching christmas films in November.

[Littlecook]

How sad am I, listening to christmas music and watching christmas films in November but you know surprisingly it help my anxiety, but I need some help and I can't decide by my self , well here goes Christmas is only around the corner and I have to decide if to have my 2 special need sons on christmas day or boxing day but I definitely know I couldn't cope two days running, my youngest when together with my oldest son falls out even on christmas day and puts the mokes on any special occasions .My health isn't too good and I don't want to use that as an excuse, my sons don't understand my health issues, and both me and my wife know that the boys say things behind our backs to family and friends like being banned from the house witch isn't true both are welcome anytime.

Please help me if you can someone must have the same problem as me , have a good weekend and thank you for taking time out to read this ,have a fab weekend.

[Dolphin14]

Littlecook

Can you ask your children which day they prefer to come?

I was just wrapping gifts. I don't find what you are doing sad

🐬

[Littlecook in reply to Dolphin14]

You are right but I don't want to them to wreck christmas like ever year .

[Dolphin14 in reply to Littlecook]

That makes sense

Everything in our lives comes down to choices. Do they have events where they live?

Maybe do something before or after the holidays? I'm just thinking out loud

[Rufus07]

im glad you found something that brings you happiness and helps with your anxiety.

[SayNOtoPanic]

Nothing wrong with enjoying holiday music or movies. I think it’s fantastic. Especially if it’s positive for your anxiety. Sorry about the family drama. Everyone has it and in some shape or form. So ur not alone. Hang in there. Any way you could have each son come on a different day and just say hey ur both always welcome but I'm thinking of keeping it small and peaceful cause dealing with health issues. Etc. something like that. 🙏🏻