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Today we almost didn't text at all. I only asked him to make time in his schedule next week so we can say goodbye (I am moving abroad), he said "I understand" and then I asked if this was a yes or no, because it wasn't clear. I still have no reply, but maybe he's too busy with his job. He took 5 hours to reply to the first message. The thing is that I am actually not feeling bad because he's not texting. I am only worried that he will again say "I don't know if I'll have time to see you even for a 10 minutes goodbye" which will really hurt me.

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it’s going to hurt either way the goodbye happens or not just be prepared for it.

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Im proud of you for limiting yourself. Don’t be surprised if he doesn’t answer. Think of this time as being a cocoon and it’s time to spread your wings and become that beautiful butterfly. A new life and adventure awaits you! Im anxious to hear about your journey to a new place and school! Keep us posted.

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