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My husband asked me for a divorce and says he doesn't want to save our marriage but he still calls me everyday and tells says I love you when we hang up he still calls me babe during conversations, we have several businesses so it's hard not to communicate, my husband is in prison it's already hard enough I'm really depressed I'm lost and don't know what to do. I don't want a divorce

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TheGalician

Bubbles are the most amazing things. Do you remember making bubbles when you were a little girl? That wonder watching as your breathe fills hole to grow and grow? Imagining stepping into their within and floating in their gentle hand off to far away. And, that feeling when on hot Summery day you feel them shimmer as in holding feel their shape squeeze to sway. And that sweetness as in touching, burst as break, a wetness splashing you in their wake.

You said you do not know what to do? I would do something that you used to love doing when you were a little girl; something that makes your mind and body remember the sweetness and joy of being alive. We can think and leave the sorrow to tomorrow.

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Cavalierrubie

Your happiness and life does not depend on one person. You lived and, hope you were happy, before you met him. Love can happen again. It did for me, better second time around. Don’t be scared. Don’t fret over someone that is dangling you on a piece of string. You are worth more than that. Keep it together. Life changes and the best is yet to come ok.

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Dolphin14

Hi

It's going to be hard to completely break free of you own businesses together.

With him being in jail is this really a good time for making major life decisions?

Try to focus on yourself right now. If the phone calls are upsetting you maybe opt out.

Is someone helping you with the business end of things?

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kenster1

get that DIVORCE he`s leading you on playing with your heart and emotions he`s obviously not the most honest guy in the world if he`s in prison but maybe it`s you who should be breaking free. you love the honest guy you probably met but sounds like he`s not that guy anymore so don`t be holding on to false hope that he`ll change his mind and return to his old self.

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