The Inherent Trap in Human Pairbonding

[Strugglin]

Don't fall in it. That's the moral of the story. I personally observed this connecting factor present in the neuroses of everybody I worked with during my days as a behavioral healthcare worker. I also observed it as a present connecting factor in my own neuroses in my own direct experience. Why must we Tell people that they will meet their Prince charming or Cinderella 1 day thus setting them up for a lifetime of feelings of inadequacy and failure if they do not meet these socially imposed expectations? Nowhere in any body's "mental health vocabulary" is room enough for even the slightest possibility of living a happy and fulfilled life alone. The advice we allways get (and give) is "oh you'll find somebody" and then you do and then you are miserable. "Get out while you still can" would be much more logical and rational and truthful and COMPASSIONATE "advice".👍

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Hi we were read fairy stories when kids like yeu Cinderella meet the man and yul live happy ever after all I met was certainly not princes they seemed charming at first but not on knowing I realised a man is not the answer to been happy happiness is never permanent anyway it's about holding on to the moments of joy we get from things there is always something out there to make us smile at least me well I'm not depressed, so I'm sorry you are struggling so but I have been at times my name nature lady says it all it is the key for me I get out there in nature and that's my happiness 💚🌟

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