Destined to be alone?

[_Mr_Nobody_]

I've been reflecting on all my failed relationships and in all the cases apart from one. I was the one getting broken up with. Always because of how I get when I go through depressive episodes. Even after therapy when I was doing better I still ended up getting broken up with because of how I am. Maybe I'm just not meant to be with anyone, maybe the thoughts that I cannot be loved is true. It has to be right? I've gone through it many times and none of my relationships have ever lasted longer than 3 months. It's so heartbreaking I don't want to be alone but it looks like that is just my fate

[Agora1]

Hi Mr Nobody...they say we have to find ourselves first by loving ourselves

before we are ready to love someone else. At 28y.o., it's still too early to say

it's your fate to be alone. All these relationships of the past are just preparing

you for the right partner. We can't plan it, it will happen when the time is right.

I can almost promise you that the day will come when you start to think of

yourself as Mr Somebody who has so much to offer and deserves to be loved.

Believe in yourself. Never put yourself down. You are worth all the happiness

that the world has to offer. Love may be just around the next corner xx

[Willow2022 in reply to Agora1]

Oh Agora that was beautiful and so true.

[Dell12345]

Hi Mr Nobody, I know how you feel, I've been there too, at your age as well. A few years later and I have met a beautiful, caring, lovely partner. It does happen, as long as you keep putting yourself out there, eventually you will find someone that is right for you.

I hope you keep trying, you have a lot to add to people's lives x

[_Mr_Nobody_ in reply to Dell12345]

I thought that's what I found in the last partner