More to be puttied than scorned!

[gerrerd]

They have the problem not you!

[Lali2018]

hahahaha

[Isinatra]

Ah! But sometimes I am the problem. Realizing I can be the problem is the way to accepting that I’m not perfect and never will be. But I can accept responsibility and try to do better. Because when I don’t accept responsibility, I can’t change and am forever to repeat the problem causing behavior.

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

That is SO true. I've accepted responsibility and apologized for a mistake I made last December, and I have grown because of it! The person I made the mistake to has not accepted responsibility for her role (or at least I don't think she has since she ran from me instead of apologizing) and she's ummm.....well, last I heard she was still stepping on peoples' toes. I've grown so much as a person. I wish I could say the same for her. One of the things keeping me going is feeling a little sorry for her.

Hope you're well, my friend!

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

You got it, girl! That’s growth.

Your friend ran…it’s hard to accept responsibility if you’re not used to it. But once you start, it becomes easier because the reward is there. Your friend hasn’t experienced the rewards yet. That is sad for her. All we can do is stand by and hope….it’s out of our control.

I’m doing well, Norw. I’m a little excited today because of the elections, but I’ve got comfort….fried chicken, fried cabbage and some kind of ooey gooey chocolate mystery dessert and some banana pudding. Wake me when it’s over. 😋

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

The thing is that she's 80....

Wake me when....😂😂😂😂 You're funny! Did you say ooey, gooey chocolate? I'll be right over. I'm glad you're doing well!

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

Oy Vay….80. Well….she still has time. 80 is the new 70?

Yeah….ooey gooey chocolate. I’ll share, my friend. 😁

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

P.S. Bring snow ⛄️

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

Bring sn...🤣🤣🤣No snow yet. Sorry about that.

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

lol

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

It normally comes in December. Once its here, it makes itself at home for too many months. Way too many months.....At least I don't live above the Arctic Circle. The sun forgets to make an appearance there....

[Isinatra in reply to Hidden]

That’s a lot of downtime. How do you cope with or counteract that?

[Hidden in reply to Isinatra]

I'll tell you on pm

[gerrerd in reply to Isinatra]

We have no problems! we only think we have!

[Isinatra in reply to gerrerd]

lol Houston…we have a problem.

[Isinatra]

As to the sentiment on the picture…..I become a victim when I give those people the power to hurt me. How to not let those people hurt me? I fahget about it 🤌! It becomes easier the older I get. It’s a perk of aging. Memories fade quicker and what were we just talking about?

[primrose81]

Oh Isinatra you are quite right um er what were we talking about?!

[Isinatra in reply to primrose81]

lol

[Hidden]

Oh, wow! What an eye-opener!

[Hidden]

Words to live by

[designguy]

LOL - good post!