Nasty Abusive messages

[Stinkpot]

I cannot believe what I have been reading on this site. Such nasty, abusive, hate-filled messages, just because “grown adults” can’t agree to disagree in a polite way. There is too much hatred in the world already to have it on this site which is supposed to be kind and caring. Thoroughly disappointed and disgusted.

[Hb2003]

I wholeheartedly agree its really sad 😕

[Arymretep]

Have I missed something here 🤔

[MadBunny in reply to Arymretep]

On Two of Goldenones posts. Really nasty .Got a sense of deja vu here 🙄

[Arymretep in reply to MadBunny]

Thanks MB, so sad 👎 where is admin ?

[MadBunny in reply to Arymretep]

Exactly. I must say I'd love to reply to them but I won't give them the satisfaction of rising to the bait.

[Arymretep in reply to MadBunny]

👍👍

[Blueruth in reply to MadBunny]

Why isn’t the actual post reported then?

[MadBunny in reply to Blueruth]

I have. I would hope others have too.

[Blueruth in reply to MadBunny]

I did on some of them. There are too many. The whole profile should go.

[MadBunny in reply to Blueruth]

I agree. I did a few too.

[Arymretep in reply to MadBunny]

Yes, I have reported them, whether there’s any point , they don’t seem to do anything about it 😳

[MadBunny in reply to Arymretep]

I think people have been banned before but they just seem to be able to re emerge under a new id🙄

[Hidden in reply to MadBunny]

Unfortunately you are correct with that, Madbunny. Banned members re-emerge. The member you're talking about has been on here before. I just made that creepy conclusion.

[MadBunny in reply to Hidden]

I think I know who you mean. Although some of the replies have been very unpleasant too

[Hidden in reply to MadBunny]

Creepy, huh? They have subtle mannerisms that expose them. Others and I have caught more than we care to admit because of these mannerisms.

[Blueruth in reply to Arymretep]

I’ve seen action taken. I don’t think they monitor all the time because there is often a delay such as over a weekend.

[MadBunny in reply to Arymretep]

Looks like the posts have gone 👍

[hypercat54 in reply to MadBunny]

Yes have and I know others have too.

[hypercat54 in reply to MadBunny]

I agree MB. It just causes chaos on the site so best ignored.

[MadBunny in reply to hypercat54]

Looks like the posts have gone 👍

[Xene in reply to MadBunny]

I totally agree with you but unfortunately some just have to fight fire with fire! C’est la vie.

[MadBunny in reply to Xene]

Yes. And sadly it can make it worse.

[Xene in reply to MadBunny]

Oh yes, and if the “player” is really good the members don’t even know they’re being manipulated and played until they eventually find out. Every case is unique but the really sad thing is they too have MH issues if they did but know it.

[hypercat54 in reply to Arymretep]

Who knows? If admin don't deal with it then best to go over their head to HU direct. But do tell them about the reports not being dealt with by admin.

[Blueruth in reply to hypercat54]

Not sure about the profile. The posts are gone. All of them.

[MadBunny in reply to Blueruth]

When I looked up one of the members it was coming back with nothing matching my search. And their reply on another post had gone .

[Blueruth in reply to MadBunny]

Well good. Politics may not be an allowed topic… I don’t wince if we don’t agree… but dog whistles I REALLY can’t deal with in any forum.

[101315]

I am so glad to have missed this latest circus show. The repetitive nature of members seeking an audience by any means necessary has a taxing effect on my well being and I have been less present as of late ... much to my discomfort. I originally joined this site to have a safe place to anonymously express my feelings without judgment. I plan to continue.

I hope you were able to avoid getting into trenches with the culprits and have maintained a positive outlook this day. The positive we can take from the negative is that there are more positive people here and through reporting the negativity, they have prevailed. And now back to our regularly scheduled mishaps and misfires.

[Megapanda]

Looks like they have been removed now .

[Skjones]

I agree but I haven't seen any posts like that

[Midori]

Totally agree.

[jackiesj]

all i know is Im here to help and be helped. block the others.