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Nothing.....thanks to two ppl from my previous post who taught me that!!!! @A724 @Neuronerd

The different circumstances I have had to dealt with came with a lesson. Some of my lessons have been painful that cut deep within my soul. I find myself thinking about them often but I could of not done anything differently.

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So true. Our circumstances make us learn lessons and give us strength. We are better, more loving, gentle people for having overcome.

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You’re so right!! When I look back there are things that make me just cringe but things that I learned from.

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Yes. You will be a better person, wife, mother for having gone through bad circumstances. It sucks but if we can just gain the strength needed to go on you will absolutely thrive in life. Put this behind you and walk proud and be the best you, you can be.

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I agree with you a thousand percent!! ❤️

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I hear you and I think you’re right... we do our best and sometimes our best is different than the other times we did our best I think... I’m in the process of learning to be gentle with myself you know? We are enough.

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Yes I get you completely. Learning to not be hard on yourself is a process. I’m learning that. I have the tendency to over analyze things which caused stressed and then a domino effect onto many things. I learning how to be gentle too, it’s a good gift to carry around! I wish you the best Starrlight in your journey 💜

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❤️ thank you so... I wish you all the best too, UnderstandingMyPain

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You weren’t supposed to do things differently then. My dear you were meant to overcome. You were meant to conquer. Every person and event is a teacher. I tell She That Gave Birth To Me she was the biggest influence in my life. Does that mean she was a good influence? Yes only in that I would never ever be her, particularly with my children. I don’t tell Her that part and all move slowly away.

I’m so very proud of you for seeing that truth and now I want to see you take it and run with it. It’s all strength. You don’t have to be better than others, just your best. You are fabulous, worthy and loved.

Doaty💛❤️

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Awww Doaty thank you and you’re such a big inspiration!!!! #ContinueToLoveLife 💜

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