I just wanted to tell you that YES U matter, ur thoughts & feelings & I include anger amongst all those feeling inside , each & every molecule matter ( see what I did there ).
Yes every down has an UP.
every night has a day.
every plate of greens has a gas 💨 lol.
We are all part of the same universe & means we all have days where meh is ur word of the day or the days where hahahahahahahahaha are the best START to the day & then there's everything in between & the fear of the unknown. In short U matter & there is always help for you here.
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Thank you so much. I'm just upset how i don't matter and my emotions don't matter. I'm crying and vomiting all night because my roommate is rude to me, and i came here because mom is rude to me, and dad was rude to me when i told him he said "You're gonna finish university and you will not have a reason to stay there, you need to think about your masters and job" while i'm in this state and all because of her. I want to stay here, where does he want me to go. He doesn't care i'm on critical. She doesn't neither. And the person bullying me doesn't, saying i'm guilty for his brother's death, and the creepy ppl online don't care, just wanted some content. While since 2 years i can't breathe
Have you sat down & had a one to one with urdad ? We men are not very attuned to our kids until they're adults , I know as I raised my 2 daughters after their mother walked out. So it was very hard & I had to learn.
Ur dad just wants U to be the best U so U can go work elsewhere in the world let alone America. Its just he doesn't realise ur emotions have taken a knock & to be fair ask him to chat one to one & explain to him everything & tell him U gonna be emotional & also tell him NOT to interrupt until ur finished & also tell him that he doesn't need to fix anything that U don't want fixed cuz us dad's always think that there is something that needs fixing. So again be honest with him & his way of fixing things my be find you another place to live . Also where ur studying is there any therapist or counselling service U can use ?
You can always raise ur concerns here & I'm sure there are many lovely ladies & men too that would be also able to help you. Also remember in this group U WILL BE HEARD !!!!
I say approach ur dad as I suggested & take it from there & I hope that light in ur dad's head gets switched on & he hears you .
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