Overthinking again

[Lookingforhope20100]

So me and my bf are in a good place I think but I'm not sure and the night before last things got a little heated in bed if you know what I mean nothing happened of course but now it feels like he is pulling away I really don't know what to do I don't know if I should talk to him about it or just leave things be until they fizz out and I'm alone again or maybe I'm just over thinking and everything will be okay in the end I've know my bf since I was 5 and he is a lot older then me so I don't know if I'm being stupid and childish or if this is really something wrong so please someone give me advice on what to do because I'm lost and my world feels like it's caving in and I'm sad to say it but he is the only thing outside of my kid that brings me joy and keeps me going I fear if I lose him I'll lose myself in the process so am I just being childish?

[Megapanda]

Hello , sorry you been having difficulty . I personally think that you should talk to him . It's clearly bothering you and I think leaving things to fester often ends up making everything worse. Communication and honestly is very important to all relationships. If it ends up being nothing then at least you know and if it is something then you can both work through it .Have you heard the saying " if something is bothering you for 24hours speak up within 48hours " ? I think it's a great rule to follow .

Take care 🐼

[Sabbath1]

Could be cause you have known him since you were 5 and he's much older. Think that could/would make any relationship a bit ... Odd. Idk maaan . Maybe just talk to him about whatever is bothering you .

[Midori]

Did you have an argument in bed? I really think that the difference in ages may be beginning to show, You need to talk with him, about your hoped for your relationship.