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Is it too good to be true?

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This past year has been the worst year of my life. I kept to myself didnt come on here when i probably should have for support but long story short this was the year my marriage in my head was finally over and I've decided to finally go through with divorce. I was reconnected with my "one that got away" only to completely get destroyed. I attempted suicide, had multiple thoughts, i broke windows, i screamed, i cried, i broke down, i lost my shit. But after it all i finally felt ok i decided im living for me and im ganna make something of myself and stop just being sad. Well along came this beautiful amazing wonderful perfect man that is completely interested in me and patient and caring and just all around a dream come true. As always my mind is going a million miles an hour just trying to find all the flaws. Like i just got ok and now im scared because of how perfect everything is going. Do i stop and focus on myself or do i try this and see what happens? Will i be able to handle another person leaving me? How will this affect my progress? Im lost once again but at the same time im still making progress.

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I'm a firm believer in focusing on yourself if this guy really cares about you he will stay in your life and talk to you and just wait but if you do choose to proceed with the relationship don't go looking for things that could go wrong because that'll just make everything worse and just know that you're never alone in the world it just feels that way sometimes

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Take it really slowly until you feel comfortable. If he is the one, he will understand and wait for you to decide.

I hope it works for you.

Cheers, Midori

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