What is it about me that makes my cheating ex boyfriend still like me?

I can get very uncormble around guys that are very good at lying and predting to someone. The guys that are superb at lying and putting others down can make me very uncomfortable. They already lose trust in you if they do. Guys that also tried to get into women's heads. My mother talked about some guys who would try to abuse and trick me into getting into a relationship or having sex

. I remember my grandmother telling me that some men tried to take advantage of my vulnerability as well as my learning disabilities.

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I feel you sis. This year, using my difficulties, a guy got into my heart and used me, only to leave me out of nowhere without even saying why and breaking up with me. Now thinking rationally i see what he was doing, i thought he was perfect, helping me and love bombing me but it turned out he just used me for entertainment. And i immediatelly felt like replacing him with other emotionally immature guy. But instead of shaming instead we shall understand this patterns. I personally do it because of my issues with my parents and my own trauma and my anxious - avoidant attachement style. Also my therapist said that guys just mature slower. I'm 21 and i like guys my age but 21 is 14 in female years. Really hope you feel better soon