I knew this would happen but it still hurts

[Sadmama]

My birthday was last Thursday and I knew my kids would forget me. I hoped it wouldn’t happen but I have sat by the phone every day and nothing. How bad am I that my own kids don’t care about me? I really did try to be a good mom. They were never forgotten and they still aren’t but I can’t do this anymore. It hurts too much.

[b1b1b1]

Do you call them frequently? My husband always refused to call his adult children, saying it was their job to call him. Luckily for him, they mostly did. I feel differently, however, and think the calling and visiting should be a two way street.

Wait a bit, until you are less upset and then call them. Don;t express anger or sadness at the fact that they didn't call you. Just make it a nice conversation.