Losing friends and then trying to move on. I was too dependent on them emotionally that all of a sudden i am all alone with my thoughts.

[Qu37T]

I just completed my first year in university and then everything fell apart. The friends i made all left. I only had 4 friends we were a group of 5 and now its just me and now i dont know how to do it all again ..live my life became so dependent on them that now it seems there is nothing for me to do anymore. I'd start the day by sending them the morning text and end it by sayung goos night ans in between we were all together it was almost like my life was planned around them ..now they are not here and i am left alome wondering if I'll ever move on ?

[Hidden]

When it comes to making friendships you know that the heart comes first . What I mean is that, your heart will feel the person first. So don't rush it. U will find other friends and feel the same. But to be honest it is not easy to lose friends bcz they tend to take a lot of space in our heart and when they leave, there is this vacant space that must be filled and it painful, I won't lie to you. In the meantime don't fight that feeling, let it in while trying to get other friends. Hope you get others again.

[Qu37T in reply to Hidden]

Yeah i know heart comes first i remember it was the 1st day and we became friends and then it all went away ....so i think it will take time lots of it ...but this friendship ended and now there is no way it will wver ger back on track.

[Hidden in reply to Qu37T]

Sorry to ask, did u fight?

[Qu37T in reply to Hidden]

Yeah we had a fight out of nothing it became way too big and then it just got out of control

[Hidden in reply to Qu37T]

I know u miss them and it will take a lot to get them out of your heart. But they might miss you as well bcz absence does make the heart grow fonder. Nevertheless I realy do wish you get others soon.

[Qu37T in reply to Hidden]

Yeah i hope too as well i get some new ones as well but it wont replace them over night and i know it will take time but knowing it takes time doesnt make the process easuer and it doesn't lessen the anxiety or the depression that follows

[Hidden in reply to Qu37T]

Very true there. I also once lost friends due to moving to different places and it was hard but I got others very quickly but there is no way of replacing em. Wish u well

[Hidden in reply to Qu37T]

... Or move to another state?

[Dolphin14 in reply to Hidden]

I totally agree. The heart comes first

[Hidden in reply to Dolphin14]

There is no way of making friends with someone you don't feel. This is why some of them you would love more than you love ur family. 👍👍

[Dolphin14]

True friends don't split like that.

Why can't you continue the relationship?

You don't have to answer. I'm just thinking out loud

[Qu37T in reply to Dolphin14]

We had a big fight and then they all just quit I'd have thought that we were stronger than that but apparently not...

[Dolphin14 in reply to Qu37T]

I'm so sorry