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Yesterday someone told me that a guy that I was interested... has a wife... my heart is broke because I never thought that I was falling in love. I am sick of try to have friends, I am not the kind of person that like small talk, and I don’t like either waist my time to trying to fit... I need to try one more time to be thankful

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Tidus

I'm sorry your heart is breaking and that it brings you pain. What do you mean try one more time to be thankful? Also, small talk sucks so are you one to talk about deeper things?

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Luberomi in reply to Tidus

When I said about to be thankful is for example, my heart is broken but I still making food, if I have my sense of hears, taste... etc. because people said that when you are more thankful you’re more happy for the positive things. And if negatives things happens always try to see the learning path.

About the small talk, I always find bored to talk about superficial things... (I don’t have any example now)

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Tidus in reply to Luberomi

Right like the everyday talk about tv celebs or the new shoe coming out. Yeah the exercises being grateful help sometimes

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Luberomi in reply to Tidus

Jaja 🤣 the new shoes coming out and celebs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah! Is so 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

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Luberomi in reply to Tidus

I cooked potato’s with onions 🧅 butter 🧈 and rice 🍚 with vegetables from yesterday 😋😋😋😋😋😋

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Luberomi

When I said about to be thankful is for example, my heart is broken but I still making food, if I have my sense of hears, taste... etc. because people said that when you are more thankful you’re more happy for the positive things. And if negatives things happens always try to see the learning path.

About the small talk, I always find bored to talk about superficial things... (I don’t have any example now)

I like to cook recipes, I like to listed podcast (super soul from Oprah), etc.

I like to walk, to see doggies, and listen to music

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Lazy_dog_lover

Sorry this happened. Did the guy show interest back? If he has a wife, then friendship is all you can have with that individual. I would much prefer a good friend.

Plus, if you find a friend, first and it moves to something more, you know all about that person and he knows all about you. What better could you ask for?

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Luberomi in reply to Lazy_dog_lover

No, I don’t that. I am not the kind of person that want to interfere in anything, and If I don’t want that in my relationship life... I don’t want that either for others

I want to cry when I remember that.

Is too recently

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