Husband just got laid off....terrified

[needhelp2z]

I'm terrified. My husband just got laid off. His was the only income besides my very small retirement. We need a miracle!

[Hidden]

I am sorry you are dealing with this right now. If you live in the US I would file for unemployment immediately. I believe there is also still a moratorium on evictions in the US as well so look into that. Get online, things like linked in and indeed are great places to find work. I am sorry I can't be of more help but I do wish you and your husband the best.

[Junella]

I can only imagine how insecure you must feel. The most important thing is not to let it immobilize you. Your husband needs lots of love now too. He will need to start looking for work and help. Be sure it doesn't cause problems in your relationship as you need each other as never before.

If you have a religious faith that can support you emotionally, practice it and talk faith, thankfulness for what you have and be positive. Set aside time for prayer. Get involved with volunteer work if you are able and help others who are suffering. You will be cared for.

[JohnPB]

Getting laid off during Covid makes life even more challenging. I pray that you and your husband would receive that miracle now that the rug has been pulled from under your feet.

[mydog56 in reply to JohnPB]

i feel the same way with my husband , we are doing badly feelings to each other, and i do not know how to deal with them?

[kvolm2016]

I'm sorry you are having to experience this right now. Even if it was suspected, it is an awful feeling when it becomes reality. It's good that you are here to get the emotional support and encouragement that you need during this time. Hopefully as you get supported you can be the support that your husband needs right now too. Did his employer provide any info for unemployment or COBRA for insurance?

[needhelp2z in reply to kvolm2016]

He was a contractor so he gets nothing. No severance or COBRA

[kvolm2016 in reply to needhelp2z]

ugh, that's definitely a downside to that industry. Does he want to look for other employment in that field or would this be the time for him to consider doing some other kind of work? Are you able to go to work to help with your household income?

[Hidden]

Hi,

I re-read my other reply to you and I realise my mistake. The suggestions for seeking work was to help your husband, not for you. I know it is scary and I feel for you, but you have to be brave and sit down with your husband and plan what you are going to do. Panic and anxiety happens when you have no control. Go on youtube and look for advice for what to do when main breadwinner gets laid off.

[needhelp2z]

Thank you!

[mydog56]

i hope you both find work! i send out my best wishes to you both and my hearts