im an extremely sensitive person and i really can’t handle pressure or high stress situations. whenever my significant other and i have had an argument my thought would never lead to “maybe we should break up” or “we’re just not compatible”. but we had a huge argument in december and they expressed to me that whenever we have a really bad argument they question if the reason why we argue the way we do is because we’re not compatible. hearing that broke me and i haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. they say they’ll never leave but then why do they have thoughts like that? i know they love me but they also don’t understand why thoughts like that make me feel like nothing. they claim they’re just thoughts but dating me was just a thought once. im feeling really low right now and i just feel so worthless.
im sensitive and i think my significa... - Anxiety and Depre...
im sensitive and i think my significant other wants to leave, even if they don’t
Hi- I’m so sorry to hear that you feel this way. Have you talked to him about this? Communication is very important in every relationship. I hope you can talk to him about how you truly feel. Praying for you that God will surround you with His peace and comfort.
Please keep us posted. God bless.
hi! im sorry for the late response, it’s a little difficult to make time to do anything. i have talked to them about it and they tell me the same thing: “it’s just a thought i have. i’m not actually going to leave” so now that’s all i can think about whenever we’re even remotely unhappy. they tell me i always feel like they’re attacking me when they say anything i don’t agree with and to some degree, i do. mostly because im extremely sensitive and they’re really blunt. it’s an interesting dynamic when we don’t agree with something.