im sensitive and i think my significant other wants to leave, even if they don’t

[germophobe]

im an extremely sensitive person and i really can’t handle pressure or high stress situations. whenever my significant other and i have had an argument my thought would never lead to “maybe we should break up” or “we’re just not compatible”. but we had a huge argument in december and they expressed to me that whenever we have a really bad argument they question if the reason why we argue the way we do is because we’re not compatible. hearing that broke me and i haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. they say they’ll never leave but then why do they have thoughts like that? i know they love me but they also don’t understand why thoughts like that make me feel like nothing. they claim they’re just thoughts but dating me was just a thought once. im feeling really low right now and i just feel so worthless.

[pink318]

Hi- I’m so sorry to hear that you feel this way. Have you talked to him about this? Communication is very important in every relationship. I hope you can talk to him about how you truly feel. Praying for you that God will surround you with His peace and comfort.

Please keep us posted. God bless.

[germophobe in reply to pink318]

hi! im sorry for the late response, it’s a little difficult to make time to do anything. i have talked to them about it and they tell me the same thing: “it’s just a thought i have. i’m not actually going to leave” so now that’s all i can think about whenever we’re even remotely unhappy. they tell me i always feel like they’re attacking me when they say anything i don’t agree with and to some degree, i do. mostly because im extremely sensitive and they’re really blunt. it’s an interesting dynamic when we don’t agree with something.