Agora1

one_direction, The best thing you can do right now is put on the brakes to those negative thoughts. They are not helpful in any way. You used the words "possible" and "possibly" in your first sentence. No where did I see the word "probable" and even if it should come to

that, you will take it step by step and get through it.

This is the problem with anxiety in that we immediately focus on the negativity and bad possibilities. We put ourselves in a hopeless state before we are even sure there is a problem. We have to put a little more faith in ourselves and the doctors. Second guessing them or reading into what they say, makes us worry sometimes for nothing.

We are human and things will happen from time to time. Try relaxing your thoughts some.

Talking about your fears can help as well. We are here for you come rain or shine xx

one_direction_fan in reply to Agora1

thank you. i really needed to hear this❤️

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Agora1 in reply to one_direction_fan

It's going to be okay. We will get through this together. This forum is amazing.

Do not worry, we've got you xx

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kbrauer

Hello, I am sorry to hear about the news that you have received from your doctor. When I have some life storm happen that I do not think that I am going to get through, I go to my Bible and read in the book of Psalms. My favorite passage in Psalms is 46:10 "Be still and know that I am God." Then I sit there and soak up those words. God, is the "Great Healer" He can take our heart, mind and soul and give us peace amongst the most difficult times in our lives. Then I close my eyes as I sit there and I pray to Him. Sometimes no actual words come to my mind, but I just reflect on His just being there with me and that is just enough for me to feel at peace with my circumstance, knowing that God has control. I am praying for you!

one_direction_fan in reply to kbrauer

thank you. this means a lot🙏🏼

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