Thoughts.

[Lostgirl]

Thoughts on this?

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100% agree but i think we can change it as we learn from experience and learn our partners. My mom mistreated my dad by demanding him to constantly do things for her so i went into my first relationship thinking that was normal.. then learned really quick that that's how you lose people. You also learn what you want in a partner if you have good parents. It sounds strange but that's my thoughts on it.

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I think yes for some (maybe most) but it was not for me. My relationship views as in who I chose to be partners were solely based on my mother’s treatment of me, controlling, manipulative, lacking emotional stability, non nourturing.. I seemed get in relationships less than healthy. My parents have been happily married and still are 55 years plus (I’ve lost count).

[PT81]

I’d say yes, but it can be any significant relationship growing up really. Views can change as we grow up, just hope we can also change patterns if needed.😀