Guilt

[Yass_123]

Me again feeling guilty cos my husband who was abroad all his life never went to hosp and didn't like going to one so on Mon after having couple days fever really lousy not eating I saw him on ph he looked breathless and blue fingernails I insited he went hosp he went but never came bk wh I mean is did they me amistake did they do right treatment could I have helped my heart and mind hurt from thinking this they kp tell me for couple day he stable then on Friday my daught went see gp at hosp but noticed nurses rushing to save someone th someone was her dad now we feel guilty for taking him a place where he didn't want to go I feel his death will haunt me with guilt I don't know how I will get over his sudden death

[Ellesbells12]

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family

[Downandout123]

This has got to be one of the hardest things to go through, and again, I am so sorry.😔 I believe you need to talk to a grief or bereavement counselor right away. Maybe they can put things in perspective for you, and although you will be grieving, you won't be feeling any guilt. The guilt will eat you up inside. Please talk to someone right away. I will pray for you.🙏

[Agora1]

Dearest Yass, you did the right thing in having your husband go into the hospital.

Know that it's no one's fault that he unexpectedly took a turn for the worse. This is

the unpredictable viciousness of Covid. Please don't lay that guilt on yourself or the

essential workers. Each person is treated with respect and care. Unfortunately, there

comes a time where even the best of treatment won't help.

I am truly, truly sorry for your loss and pain. I lost my father to a sudden death years

ago and I understand the pain and even the guilt I went through. Thinking "if only I had".

But I couldn't change what had happened. It was time to grieve in our own way. I care xx