Anxiety from partner

[Sj5314]

Hi I’ve been suffering with really bad anxiety for abit 2 years now go a lot worse in this last year mother of two young children under two I feel like my other half has a awful temper and will flip out at something like I haven’t put the washin out or forgot to do something that he says it’s not a mistake as I don’t learn anything I just keep doing stupid stuff he can be so caring but can also be so vile when he starts an argument he ruins every birthday every Christmas by having a week long of mental torture arguing every day where witch mainly consists of me sodding though out I wake up most days worried he’ll be in a bad mood I love him and don’t want to put my kids though us breaking up but just don’t know where to go from here we can’t talk about this as just turns into an argument but scared about how dressed I’m getting I’ve started to hit myself in the head when ever I’m seriously stressed or angry and I just feel like now I’m the mad one just so lost in what to do to make me feel happy and save our kids from losing a dad as he refuses to see them if we split up

[hypercat54]

Hi there is a term for this which is gaslighting. Have a look at the link below.Remember it is far better for children to have one loving parent than two who are unhappy. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me.

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Get yourself and your kids away from this man, he is abusing you.