Not feeling great today...

[BKLYNr]

Not feeling great about myself today. Was already feeling down and anxious because of not doing well on the job search today and feeling fatigued and insignificant, someone had to comment to me in the elevator at my apartment building that I don't look good and have gained wait. Also how worried they are about me. Of course this made me feel worse and want to go back home, put on the TV and hide from life....Just wanted to tell the person to f**k off.

[Hidden]

Don't let people get to you

[BKLYNr in reply to Hidden]

I know. It is just easier said then done.🙃

[Hidden in reply to BKLYNr]

Yeah....

[olivia10]

I guess that sometimes people who are saying unnecessary bad things to you are trying to make themselves feel better by focusing on you and not on their insecurities for a moment.

[BKLYNr in reply to olivia10]

This guy is a physician that exercises and lift weights daily. Told me he does not want to see me get ill. This is why I tried avoiding people or would say something like 'mind your own business I'm aware of myself'. Have to get better at having these comments roll off my back.

[AwesomePerson]

That person is a fu**ing asshole

[BKLYNr in reply to AwesomePerson]

I agree. People need to look at themselves in the mirror first before looking at others. This guy also thinks wearing a mask during covid is bullsh**.

[Amy_lou]

That guy sounds like a right idiot...for me when people say stuff to me I just think...really does your opinion effect me? No it doesn’t it’s much easier said than done I agree but that person is so insignificant to you. 🙏🏼🥰

[BKLYNr in reply to Amy_lou]

Great advice. You are right! His opinion means nothing. I've see him for years and don't even know his name. The smartest person would just know when to keep their opinion to themself.

[Sodown]

Let the haters hate all jelousy if they can't say anything nice just smile and wave

[Hidden]

You are wonderful the way you are! It hard now days. People are sometimes not nice. Your are you that is perfect.

[Jstbcuz]

I'm so sorry that happened to you. Ppl can be so inconsiderate. What was your response? Don't let someone still your joy. Stay positive, what you say to yourself is really important. Listen to your thoughts and see how they impact you. Tell yourself that everything will be ok and believe it. Your not alone, so many ppl are struggling right now . You can do this!!!!!

[Hidden]

Thats rude isn't it?

Thing is its none of their business!

I'm job hunting as well and it can get soul destroying at times.

[Hidden]

As long as you know you are doing your very best then that's all that matters!

[Pel3749]

You are doing ok because you are ok. Pay no attention to other people comments they should mean nothing to you. God bless. Stay in touch.

[detour13]

They are just looking out for you.. It's good that they told you.. Now smarten up , loose some weight so they can tell you,, u look great!!

[catch_the_music]

The same thing has happened to me. I seem to get unwanted comments when launching a new exercise program, etc. Drives me nuts too. I have to remind myself to continue to do the right stuff - despite the opposition. For motivation I listen to Praise music to keep me upbeat on the day (Danny Gokey has great songs). It is good to know that God is walking along with us - no matter what we are going through. Prayer is another big thing - handing over difficult situations to God. Hang in there! God Bless!