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Hi, new to this place and happy to be here. I would really like to make some friends and build a support group.

I am in my mid 30s and have a history of anxiety and some depression but since the whole virus/lockdown thing I have since become homeless, lost work, experienced health problems, failed and finding new work, and all in all have really just hit rock bottom.

I work in the wellness field (massage and bodywork) and obviously that industry took a hit. I have been constantly seeking work but havent had any success and now live in my car.

Anyways, hope to make some friends! I am into healthy eating, travel, aliens, and nature! I have done lots of backpacking around the world too. Anything else kist ask.

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Welcome aboard,u came to the right place.😊

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Kat_21

Welcome! It sounds like you've been through a lot. I'm so sorry, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here. I suffer from anxiety, agoraphobia and depression.

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bruno2006 in reply to Kat_21

Thank you! Definitely has been rough lately. At least i still have a gym membership and can work out haha. Great to meet you here :)

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Kat_21 in reply to bruno2006

It's nice to meet you! When I was 18 I went through homelessness as well. It's not easy but it gets better!

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Heyyouthere33

I'm new here too! I didnt get hit that hard . I lost both my jobs ( I really loved them too) and I moved in with my parents but I would like to be apart of a community. Can we start one!

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bruno2006 in reply to Heyyouthere33

Hey there, what kind of work were you doing? And where do you live? I am in Idaho but my family lives in Texas.I have been thinking of moving back but idk. Right now i just sleep in my car. I sleep great actually haha.

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Heyyouthere33 in reply to bruno2006

Hi! I'm from los angeles. I work at Universal studios and at a film studio. And if you cool with sleeping in your car then more power to you.

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bruno2006 in reply to Heyyouthere33

Oh right on! My sis lives near LA. Lots of people moving from cali up here. How do you like cali? And id prefer not to live out of my car but its like a bubble and i sleep so good hahah.

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Heyyouthere33 in reply to bruno2006

I love California. Thr weather is always great but people sometimes suck. But it is cool meeting people from all over. I just wish people weren't as superficial

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bruno2006 in reply to Heyyouthere33

Well i think superficial is the norm nowadays. People very quick to judge too. But yea good weather is always something to look forward to. I know dark winter days up here really wear me out.

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Heyyouthere33 in reply to bruno2006

This is true! I try not judge strangers, everyone is on their own journey they are doing the best they can but alas , not everyone can think like that. We are dark and stormy for maybe month then it clears us. Its great

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Agora1

Hi bruno2006, Welcome to a great support group. I'm sorry for all the negativity in your life right now. But I do see a lot of positive things about you and that is what will carry you through. As for friends, "here we are" :) Ready and able to help you through this part of your journey. You've come across a virtual family of caring people. I'm glad you are here :) xx

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bruno2006 in reply to Agora1

Thanks so much! Hows life on your end?

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Agora1 in reply to bruno2006

Life is Good Bruno. I suffered many years with overwhelming anxiety and Agoraphobia but have found the key to success with Meditation and Diaphragmatic Breathing as well as other methods that keep me in a state of peace and calm. I'm just one of the positive family members on this site that looks beyond what we see and reaches for the stars.

I'm here to pass my success forward. Take our hand new friend and we will walk the walk with you. :) xx

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bruno2006 in reply to Agora1

Thats wonderful. I have been meditating and doing breathwork for years now. I usually do pranayama sessions and wim hof breathing. I was using the calm app for meditation but have since stopped because i started living in my car haha. i also did a 10 day vipassana retreat this year. I also have the heartmath device for heart mind coherence.IIts great! I suppose i was quite well before all the lockdown stuff. I should probably start meditating again but its just so weird since i dont have a home or a space.

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kenster1

hi and welcome to you Bruno that was my late cousins nickname as well.

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bruno2006

Oh right on its a nice name hah

Cat was homeless for one year after home burned in 2008

🔥

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Mone147

Hi! Nice to meet you and welcome! If you're looking for support and friends this is the right place! :)

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bruno2006 in reply to Mone147

Thanks so much. Happy i found this place!

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Elle_Luv

Ah tell me about your backpacking trips! I’ve only done a couple! I did pictured rocks and south manitou island! What are some of your favorite backpacking trips?

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Elle_Luv in reply to Elle_Luv

Also! I’m sorry this year has been so rough on you it sounds like you’re going through a lot. I hope things get better soon <3

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bruno2006 in reply to Elle_Luv

Well i started traveling right after high school. I went to china and then lived in south america. After that i did lots of backpacking trips through mexico,parts of central america, parts of africa, etc. Oh man those were the days!

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Elle_Luv in reply to bruno2006

Oh my god! That’s so cool! I’m a tad jealous!! How on earth did you manage that?

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bruno2006 in reply to Elle_Luv

Well first thing is to reduce your exoenses and save money. From there i would just pick places and request off work and was granted the time off. Usually my trips were a month long or so. Last couple of years i have been doing more wilderness backpacking. I love it so much. Hope we all can get back to traveling soon.

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Elle_Luv in reply to bruno2006

Thanks for the tip!! I do too! I miss those days!

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Kamp2020

Here for you. You sound like a very determined lady. Wish you the best.

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Gnu89

Hello! I'm sorry to hear how things are for you at the moment, I hope it'll get better for you!

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Hb2003

Hello and welcome 😁 you will get lots of support and kindness in this community 😊

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teen_anxiety

wow, that is definitely a lot can't relate much but I would still love to help if you need it.

Hi and welcome bruno,

I am concerned that you are in Idaho and living in your car. Do you have a way to keep safely warm?

I was homeless years ago. I am so sorry you are going through this.

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bruno2006 in reply to Nothing_but_books

Hello! Well i am looking for a place so hopefully that happens soon. I have lots of hiking and camping experience so know how to keep warm. I really want to avoid a shelter as those places are not a good fit for me and i have heard horror stories. I also dont drink, smoke, do drugs and many people there do and i just wouldnt feel comfortable. Thanks for your concern!

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Nothing_but_books in reply to bruno2006

I hear you about the shelters. I have experienced the bad myself. And also the not-so-bad, but they are never a great option. But neither is bitter cold.

I'm glad to hear you are hopeful of improvement soon. Does that mean a job prospect? I hope so too.

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bruno2006 in reply to Nothing_but_books

Well i actually do work but im not as busy as i need to be in order to qualify for an apartment so my plan is to rent a room or find roommates. I really dont have friends here in idaho so its just me and a girl i have been seeing helps out by letting me use her house (but not to sleep over). So not many options.

I think this year has been a shit show for many people. For me it was just like boom, one thing after the next. I never thought id be homeless but here i am. Im so lucky to have a hatchnack car haha!

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Nothing_but_books in reply to bruno2006

Keep in touch and tell me how you're doing. I am hoping things look up soon.

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Bigbrighteyes96

Welcome bruno! How are you? I hope you are safe and well.

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Bluemarie

Hello and welcome 🙂 Just joined this morning. Looks like a great place for support.

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Hi and welcome to a supportive community!

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Hello and thank you for the warm welcome! Happy to be accepted.

Hi and welcome to a supportive community!

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