Am i selfish again? I’m so anxious rn

[Thealchemist99]

My bf and i only go see each other like once a week, he says that we don’t have much to do except go on rides or cruises in the car due to the lockdown. But on the contrast, he goes out and meets his friends every 2 days. He was with his friend 2 days ago they spent like 5 hours together and today he’s going to meet him again! My point is why we only meet once a week and he meets his friends like everyday. This is bothering me and concerning me a lot and it is ruining my relationship with him. He always tells me that he misses me but when he miss me he doesn’t tell me that he wants us to meet. Any help please ?

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Tell him you want to spend more time together. Not sure why you two can’t do evenings at home, maybe quiet romantic dinner and movie at home. Go on a picnic, walk in the park, there are things you can do to avoid COVID. Cruising in cars sounds like things very young people do.. not sure if you live at home or on your own, work, school, etc.

But just ask for more time and tell him you don’t want to ride around in a car for your date.