What was I thinking?

[Imgarbage]

My wife and I are recently separated while we work on ourselves and then hopefully our marriage. I think she's just trying to figure out if she loves me or can love someone like me we've been comunicating via text and we get together on the weekends to talk . I just texted her that I we shouldn't text that way she really knows what it's like to miss me. Aghhh!! I just shut down our only way of conversing wtf!

[Idk_291]

Why did you tell her not to text?

[Imgarbage in reply to Idk_291]

Her reason for staying apart is so she can find out what makes her happy so I figure it is me she is not happy about and doesn't know if she truly loves me and pressed the point a little I guess

[Hidden]

Hey,

I’m not married, so I don’t know what exactly what that’s like. But I can see a lot of pain in this situation and I’m so so sorry. I don’t really have any advice or know what to do. I just pray that everything gets better and that you and your wife’s marriage will be saved and be prosperous soon.

[Imgarbage in reply to Hidden]

Thank you means a lot

[Hidden in reply to Imgarbage]

No problem. God bless you and your wife

[catch_the_music]

Sorry this is happening. You and your wife are looking for direction since your marriage sounds like it has been drifting. You need to find out how to recommit to your marriage. A pastor or counselor can give you sound advice. Another highly recommended resource is marriage seminars. "Weekend to Remember" puts on a really good seminar that equips couples on how to reconnect with each other. Christian based. Amazingly good! My wife and I love going to this every few years. It helps to make our marriage the best it can be. Be sure to pray for your marriage every day. Does wonders! God Bless you my friend!