FORCED TO SEPERATE

[Amelua]

WHEN AND HOW OFTEN SHOULD THE ANXIETY/DEPRESSION SUFFERERS BE FORCED TO SEPERATE FROM THEIR LOVE OF THEIR LIFE. (CRIME ISN'T IN THE PICTURE OF THIS TOPIC)

[mvillarreal]

Hi, Amelua . Could you maybe give some more context as to what, exactly, you're referring to?

[Amelua in reply to mvillarreal]

I've been put in a situation which triggers my anxiety and depression from bad to worse. The confort of being with my spouse has been taken away because a child for whom I have custody of has got out of control both with me, my spouse, school, and the law. To help him, I had to move from another country. Now this country stopped me from being or going to visit my spouse til the child is considered to be fully under control. Therefore my health doesn't seem to matter to anyone, and that just brings back the desires to be dead and free from all troubles.

[Anna_and_Ollie in reply to Amelua]

This sounds absolutely awful. I can’t even begin to imagine how you’re feeling right now. You must be lonely, I know I would be.

There need to be better systems in place for situations such as this. Unfortunately that’s not the case... if you need to seek comfort or just some connection you are always more than welcome to reach out.

I may not offer the best advice but I listen really well and I care.

[Amelua in reply to Anna_and_Ollie]

Thank you

[mvillarreal in reply to Amelua]

Ugh! That's horrible! Why won't they let you see your husband? Like what does that have to do with your child being out of control? Sounds like you're experiencing the racism embedded in our country's legal systems, and I'm sorry you have to go through that. Please don't hurt yourself though. There is always hope for a better future, and we don't want to see anything bad happen to you.

[Lazy_dog_lover]

I read your explanation to mvillarreal. I am not sure any country takes into consideration the health of the caregiver in a situation like that. They have an obligation to the child, the laws, and the safety of you and of the public.

You would probably need to seek out help for yourself in dealing with the child. It might be a family counselor or social worker, but no one is going to reach out without you asking for help.

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I'm sorry but I don't understand the question?