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I hate when I try to do the right thing by someone and I’m still disappointing them.

I could literally do everything right except one thing and it’s like I screwed everything up.

I’m a good person and I would never do wrong by you and it hurts me to feel like this. I wish people understood this about me and stopped making me feel this way.

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A+On

Pay more attention to that they are disappointing you. Pay more attention to doing things to Help yourself since it is clearly not possible to make them Happy.

You like me ??

I like you two a lot.

Would you believe that I Reported endless computer errors and issues using this web site to HU, and mostly gave up due to this.

Just tried again in total disgust at this, then it immediately worked Perfectly only one hour later. So I was able to respond to you.

I hope this continues to keep working, if not I will continue sending them endless reports that their web site continues to be not working.

Sad that most of my time is spent fixing their computer problems instead of talking to people like you.

Chris

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I don’t want to dislike these people but I need to learn how to distance myself even when I don’t want too.

What issues are you having with the site ?

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Just have a little bit less to do with them.

They can still be a valuable part of your life, just not as much contact as before.

The worst computer issue is that the very important email responses from people will Not allow me to log in or talk to them at all. And every possible browser attempt either tells me endlessly to log in and won't let me or says my password is invalid when my password Is valid.

Are you glad you asked?

I am a computer expert and one thing they are doing is being ultra safe and trying to block out bad people (and there are plenty of them) but go too far and block out people like me. I triggered their security blocking by so much activity so quickly. They suffer too when bad people misuse their website to easily hurt you for sharing so openly. Their incentives are always the same. They think they are very smart and very funny.

HU has already permanently blocked a very popular person for doing this me. He thought it would be very easy to attack me because I am so honest and open. There are more things going on but I think I answered your question well, probably too well.

If HU reads this, all is well and all is good.

I will continue and I absolutely Love how these people are so open and honest.

Catman22

Thanks for asking

Chris

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You’re very right, I’m still learning how to properly balance the world around me.

Well it is reassuring to know that the website is well protected. I also can’t believe people would come on here to attack those who are just seeking help. I’m glad they were able to block that person!

And anytime 😊

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Kainan

How other people react is on them, nothing to do with you. You can only take responsibility for yourself and your actions and feelings. Don't let other people get you down. They are only feeding their own egos and spewing out their own insecurities on other people. No use getting caught up in that.

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