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How am I supposed to feel supported?

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Long story short, I live in a overcrowded house with my bfs family and my 2 kids. His dad has now made a 3rd attempt at an inappropriate pass at me. I no longer have any kind of trust in the man, and yet every adult in this house (accept 1) gives off the vibe that I should just "be over it already." It's hard to walk through the halls of the house, hard to stand in the kitchen to make my family dinner knowing he will be stepping in to get fed like a king by his wife, and to just feel like myself. I feel alone, I feel stressed ALL day long and feel like if I keep crying to my bf he will get sick of me.

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I don't really know what to say. It definitely sounds like you need a different living situation away from that guy. Try to set some boundaries, you have every right to be angry.

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Thank you for reminding me that I'm allowed to be angry. I told my bf that I cant keep living under the roof of someone I have absolutely no respect for anymore. It's so sad, I must be thinking about this subconsciously too because I've had very vivid dreams about yelling and screaming at my bfs dad and smacking him. It's not fun to dream about someone you hate. Especially to remember the dream or wake up feeling angry and scared.

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