loosing a "friend"

[yellowbee4]

I posted a video saying "I noticed the people I surround myself with are the opposite of me, and don't get me wrong I love/miss them, but I want another friendship that shares my aesthetic and energy" so my "BFF"'s boyfriend commented that I should've told it to her face, and I thought he was joking in some weird way so I said "she knows we're opposites, that's what made us click", and then he says "if I want to surround myself with different people then I should've told it to her face and not on social media, and she's pretty hurt about this by the way", so I text her asking why she's hurt, that she misunderstood, that I still want to be friends.

but she never responded (its been 48 hours). I called that night-voicemail, I even snapped her, still nothing.

her boyfriend has been targeting me ever since I wouldn't get back together with my ex who is his friend. but obviously I can't say anything cause he'll just use that against me to fuel the fire, and she'll protect him.

It hurts knowing the only way this will end is just loosing her like that.

[Willbeabrighterday]

Hi, I understand what you meant regarding having different people in your life and not meaning to hurt your BFF, however, I can see why this upset her. She may feel like she’s not good enough and that you find her lazy when you say you want people with energy. Posting a message like you did may have made her feel targeted as if you were trying to send her a hidden message. Maybe you can try to post something special related to just the two of you showing how much you value her. Continuing to let her know how much you care about her will eventually bring her to understand you didn’t mean this the way it sounded. Good luck!!