Need some advice on dating and relationships( I'm just a beginner!!)

[Dreamer468]

Everyone,

I've mentioned about a girl who likes me in my class in college earlier. I found about it on F3bruary or March I think so, before college was closed due to Corona pandemic. That time I pressured around my colleague to find out who she is though they have been said no to tell anything about it by her. She said she was tensed, afraid of my reactions when I konw about her and so on. So it's been 5 months or something. I'm going through rough patches. I asked around my colleagues sometimes about her. Now, I feel like it should end now. I've been going through a lot and is it fair should also have to stress about her?? I want it to end. She has to face whatever happens.

So what do you guys say??

[Ladybug9]

I would suggest getting a hold of her and after the Virus is over or it's safe to meet up with her, commiunicate with her about what she is going through and what she is afraid of. and tell her how you feel.

[Dreamer468 in reply to Ladybug9]

Ladybug9, the thing is I've to wait till the college reopens which won't be happening any soon this year. I dont find it fair. I've to wait for someone who I dont even know her name, like some idiot?? For a few months, I decided to lay one, because she is afraid of the outcomes when her family finds about it( They're pretty strict and orthodox). I can understand her situation it's too risky for her to contact me through the time. But how long should I wait? I'm thinking about breaking up before even we talk, because I'm loosing my mind due to my other problems such as Depression l, OCD, panicking attack and mood swings which are shattering my daily life and routines and also makes me worries about my career and future....

[Ladybug9 in reply to Dreamer468]

My honest opinion? Take care of YOU first and foremost and then worry about finding someone to have in your life.