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Hi How is everyone i hope everyone is OK i am not good i feel depressed

i miss my gran so much every memory is still difficult even the good memories.

please talk to me i feel lonely i need a friend

once i start crying i can't stop i cry for ages.

please look after yourself

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Hi En, I am here for you. I am based in Australia 🐨. When we lose a valued relative, life seems so unfair. Grief is as natural as breathing though it doesn't seem that way when we are in the middle of it.

One grandmother 👵left this earth when I was 18 and I never got to meet her husband. The other grandparents died in World War 2. When my dad dies our little family will be so much smaller. I am putting together the family history to honour those gone before to keep busy during weekends. If I could have met the grannies, the story would be more interesting.

For the time being, good bye from me

Sorry for your loss En

When did your Gran pass?

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Hi it is En here my gran died August last year and i miss her so much i was brought up by my gran and grandad anyway thank - you your kind message.

Love

EN (Endeavour)

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Do you do anything for her? Them?

Maybe today!

Walk for them.

Or take a 30 second break at high noon to just ground and focus on them only!

Celebrate them and who they are daily! (In little ways)

Today I will organize and do aromatherapy things but maybe I will wear my grandmother's jewelry ♡

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Hi En, how long ago did you lose your grandma? ... I see august of last year in your response. It hurts I know. My grandparents left decades ago and my parents ten years ago. It hurts and it hurts for a while but it does get better. But after nearly a year things should hopefully be improving a little. There is no timeline. Do you have anyone you can talk about this with who is in the same circumstance? A brother or a cousin or parent? Have you read up on grief? If you google stages of grief there are good sites which discuss the process. They may or may not help but I find understanding any topic makes it easier.

Ten years after my parents passed most of the sadness has been filled with good memories but that didn't happen over night.

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