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I'm having trouble seeing the point of being alive. I feel really depressed/unmotivated. I just need someone to help me see why I should be alive besides "family or friends are going to miss me if I'm gone",or a religious claim.

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I may not know who you are. I may not know your battle. But the most I can try to do is encourage you with my own. I have been so low so many times and wondered when there will be a light at the end of the tunnel and there isn’t an easy answer. I try to remember though that what you are going through or have gone through only has to be a small portion of your life. There is so much left to uncover which can be discouraging when you feel low, but I beg you please don’t give up. You may not want to hear this but I know people who have and it crushes your soul. Even if you don’t think you have family or friends who care about you you just don’t know who may come into your life a few months from now. You may not think people care but I do. I may not know you but I care so much about you and your story because I relate to you and that’s special. Your hurt and your sadness may feel like your biggest weakness, BUT it makes you more empathetic, caring and loving than the average person and THOSE are people who can change the world by caring for the hurting. And you may not have the same beliefs as me & that’s okay but I want to tell you that Jesus loves you. I truly believe that He has a plan for your life. People are hard and complex and don’t always express the value you bring to their life. You may feel exhausted and weary and like you can’t make amends, BUT... live for that future child that looks up to you as a mentor for the character that was built from your pain. That future friend that can relate to your hardships because they can see themself in you. You may need to make a change and it may not be easy. But wherever you are I believe in you and your ability to do it. Let this be your sign that you deserve good things and you just need to believe it. I know it’s not easy, I know I know I know but you CAN do it. Baby steps. Putting a message in here means you want that for yourself. So take sometime to do something that you enjoy or pick up a hobby. Close your eyes and breath. Get on antidepressants or L Theanine to help with hormonal imbalances that may be impacting you. I believe in you

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Sabio77

Mdpjr21 hi I am glad that you shared your thoughts here. you touched my heart just by typing them. I want to remind you that even tho we are to be inside, bored., you are not alone. did you know that you were created with a purpose, with a talent? I believe in you Mdpjr21. I want you to believe in you too. how can I help you? what is happening that makes you feel this way my friend?

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SuZQ154

Just read this and wondering how you are doing!! We are here for you! Please keep posting! God loves you and so do many others!

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newmercies

Hi friend, just wanted to say that your life matters. Your life has meaning and purpose and value. Thank you for sharing and please continue to do so, I encourage you to reach out to someone in your life and ask for help. You matter ❤️

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